ARGH!! women are mental!!

Originally Posted by missyorkie_chris

Maybe that's part of the problem, you both need a couple of days/weeks/months away from each other to remind yourselves of why you're with each other, then she'll appreciate you all the more

ive given up in the short term trying to understand, so i will just post the outcome when it happens!!

[dizzyblonde]

Do you live with the GF? If not sometimes the times apart turn ya mental.....

..... not that I'd know anything about that being 4 yrs with my otherhalf living elsewhere

Originally Posted by dizzyblonde

Do you live with the GF? If not sometimes the times apart turn ya mental.....

..... not that I'd know anything about that being 4 yrs with my otherhalf living elsewhere

nope dont live with her, we are at different unis
so its not exactly like she needs more space!!

[dizzyblonde]

In that case perhaps being apart all the time kinda makes her feel insecure, etc, don't know you so can't comment properly.
From my point of view with Im Indoors being at uni for 4 yrs and needing his own space cause of all the hard work, put its toll on both of us for different reasons, also hes still not fully understanding as to why I like to have him with me. I'm a family person, have a 6 yr old, so obviously I'm a nest builder.

For me not having a man around the house turns me completely batty, I mean how would anyone feel staring at four walls, then only doing kids stuff for the rest of the day, and working nights on a weekend when everybody else is out having fun.....
Sometimes a girl just needs her man, even if she does display odd behaviour and make you assume the complete opposite!

Originally Posted by pencil shavings

nope dont live with her, we are at different unis
so its not exactly like she needs more space!!

hmm that's a point . She sounds like she's just having a bad few days, bit over-touchy, it'll blow over. Just be your usual nice self and she'll soon realise she's being a plonker

Originally Posted by missyorkie_chris

hmm that's a point . She sounds like she's just having a bad few days, bit over-touchy, it'll blow over. Just be your usual nice self and she'll soon realise she's being a plonker

hope so. the thing is, i dont want her to feel bad for getting upset, u cant rly help how things make u feel sometimes. and i would rather she told me that she was upset that keep it inside.

right, well it was going from bad to worse. I tried not talking to her but she kept on making contact during the day. I was really starting to think that this was going to end in more tears.

But then i decided to take a proactive stance, she is really close to her mother so I told her in no uncertain terms that if she dosent talk to her mom and get her advice, i would call her mom and tell her the situation. Ive only met her twice, but I would have done it, and like I said in the origional post, i know I hadnt done anything wrong.

She took the bate, called her mom and he mom told her she was over reacting.

So.................

i think it will be ok now lol

women have no logic to them, alot of unnecessary stress. ho hum!

Ah yes, but you have survived yet another relationship hurdle, so give yoursen a pat on the back

Personally i`d have gone mental if my boyfriend had involved my parents!!! The secret of a good relationship is communication.... if you don`t have communication then there is (in my opinion) no relationship!

Originally Posted by Speedy Claire

Personally i`d have gone mental if my boyfriend had involved my parents!!! The secret of a good relationship is communication.... if you don`t have communication then there is (in my opinion) no relationship!

the comunication wasnt the problem at all, we both knew what the problem was and we were talking about it, but she couldnt understand that she was making somthing out of nothing. and it was starting to go too far.

in the end i didnt involve her mom, she did. but at that point i was starting to loose faith that she wud ever get her head back on and had to do somthing!