Malicious Facebook Message - What to do?

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Maybe mention it to HR/HC in your company too. If it is someone from work, you might be able to pull the logs/internet activity.

Worth mentioning to them anyway, you never know where this stuff can lead and being up front about it will do you no harm.

Forgive my ignorance about Facebook here - though you had to be invited before you join a group? If so, have you or anyone in your group invited someone recently?

Can you check the email address that the person used to register? I'm assuming that a valid email addy is needed.

Sounds like a right 'mare and another good reason not to waste my time with it.

Good luck mate

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Originally Posted by krhall

I feel like I am guilty of something I have never done and am running around trying to prove my innocence which is ridiculous, but what else can I do?

You need to talk to your wife, thats the only thing you can do. Theres no point messaging the other person they'll know they are getting to you and thats their main aim.

Can you not ask your boss if you can take some time off and get your wife to do the same and then you can talk about it and get it sorted out.

I know they mention your boss's name but have you thought it might actually be someone your wife has p*ssed off? Even unintentially?

People can be vindictive at times and will stop at nothing to get one over on someone. A so called friend we had once tried something similar, all because my wife couldn't babysit her 7 (yes 7) kids one night. Fortunately my wife knew it was all a crock and told her where to go, the stupid b**ch then tried sending a similar thing to me.

Best of luck mate, but be prepared to let her access your Facebook, emails and texts as sometimes its the only way - although she'll probably accuse you of deleting them.

You can report the person responsible and block her/him from messaging you again. Best to ignore it I guess, your wife is the main priority as she's probably a wee bit upset by the whole thing...

I don't even use facebook........

I reckon what matters is your wife not what the person said, so ignore that aspect of it.

Put it to your wife that if it was true then the person should be willing to reveal themselves to her, and also they should be able to indicate how exactly they found out the information.

If not, it's a meaningless rumour - keep telling her that because she will want to hear reassurances like that, I'm sure it will be niggling away at her and you want to remind her how ridiculous it is that she might believe it!

Originally Posted by krhall

No she gave me her facebook details and there was a messgae there from sarah smith

My ex-wife's sister is called Sarah Smith, it wouldn't be her cos she's an absolute sweetie - not at all like the horrible, devious, thieving, cheating, overweight, nasty piece of crap my ex-wife has become.

You could get your wife to message the person back and tell them that she doesnt believe them unless they can produce evidence. It will then soon become obvious that it was a lie when no evidence can be produced!

i thought you could only message your freinds

anywho your wife should send them a message saying thank you he has admited everything