The missus has gone loco!!!

Originally Posted by pookie

it cant be that bad as she's seeking help. I guess you're more shocked that she didn't tell you.

Exactly!

Originally Posted by kitkat

bet it is your fault lol

Cheeky, but probable

Originally Posted by Quiff Wichard

if she had broke her leg she would get sympathy..

just cos she might have broke a bit of her brain and you cant see the any physical plaster makes it no different- just, in todays society , harder to live with.

All the best to her.. I hope she unravels her ball of wool that is life, unties each knot and rolls it back up in to a new tidy mini world .

When she talks.. listen.. I mean REALLY LISTEN.

To listen, I need to shut up !
Never really tried that lol.
As for taking the pi$$, no never on this particular subject ( or her weight )

Ste

you better hope your wife never stumbles on this thread, good luck to you both.

[Dave20046]

Originally Posted by Quiff Wichard

if she had broke her leg she would get sympathy..

just cos she might have broke a bit of her brain and you cant see the any physical plaster makes it no different- just, in todays society , harder to live with.

All the best to her.. I hope she unravels her ball of wool that is life, unties each knot and rolls it back up in to a new tidy mini world .

When she talks.. listen.. I mean REALLY LISTEN.

Very good advice.
However if you want bad advice; you could always try hiding objects she sets down as soon as she turns her back and keep pretending events never happened

[ophic]

Originally Posted by Dave20046

Very good advice.
However if you want bad advice; you could always try hiding objects she sets down as soon as she turns her back and keep pretending events never happened

yeah - hide them in the fridge

UPDATE:-
Not to be taken lightly:-
Yep she's loco
However such a fantastic woman that she is, she's decided enough is enough and she wishes to resolve her issues, without worrying the living daylights out of me.
I'm not allowed to mention what these issues are as they are real and to be brutal disgusting!
I am however glad that she has finally opened up to me ( which has explained a hell of alot ) and will in future be mindful of what I say and the way that I react to certain situations.
Right now she's at the offy to get me booze, what a woman!
foook she's back
Ste

It's taken a lot of courage for her to open up and admit she needs help
Those closest to it all are always the last to find out because you dont want to worry or the hurt the ones you love most - experience talkin!!!!!!!!

Be there for her you'll still drop the wrong comment as you go along but be a man and admit it when you do!!!!1

Good luck to you both theres light at the end of the tunnel

[ixlr8]

All strength to her and may it all go well for you. Don't underestimate how long it takes from understanding the issue to healing for her, tho.