11 year old girl to be a mum....UPDATED

Originally Posted by Tara

yeah but did the girls mum know what she was up to

She was off her face on crack cocaine at the time. So that's a no.

Originally Posted by Spiderman

I was flicking tv chanells last night and someone said something that sounded sensible to me.


Girls of this age should be made to live with their mums, the mums should lok after the kids while the kid goes to school to finish her education and she should not be allowed to get any kind of social housing. It must become a family responsibility to teach that family a sense of responsibility that they clealry dont already have.

Sounds like the most sensible solution to me.

IMHO, This is this sort of poor parenting skills which is giving us all the problems we are having in society today as a whole...

Yob culture, lack of respect for anything/anyone, juvenile car crime, theft... etc etc

All of these things were quite prevelent in Hull when I was growing up, but did I decide to 'go down that path'

No

Why

Because I know I'd have gotten my **** well & truly kicked if I did...

These days kids seem to be getting patted on the back by certain parents for doing stupid things, not chastised... Let alone being 'smacked' (can I say that work or will I get dragged off to court for uttering such filth )

The only people who can do something about this kind of behaviour is society are the people who live in it - US!

[Spiderman]

Originally Posted by Ceri JC

Sounds like the most sensible solution to me.

I thought so too, it made a change from everyone just criticising without actualy comming up with a sensible real world solution that doesnt make her a drain on the taxpayers and so hated by them too.

These days kids seem to be getting patted on the back by certain parents for doing stupid things, not chastised... Let alone being 'smacked' (can I say that work or will I get dragged off to court for uttering such filth )

The only people who can do something about this kind of behaviour is society are the people who live in it - US!

nice one! lols if a little preachy but I'll let u off cos I agree

If the stories are true - The mum should to be locked up for child abuse! Or just being an irresponible parent... But if they play their cards right they will probably make a lot of money through selling their story to the tabloids - need to ask Jade for some advice on that one - but they may then save us some tax dollars!

I cannot understand why anyone on here would look to point blame at either social services or the school ffs! Social Services can only act when notified that something requires looking at. Schools are there to educate children.

Some people are just too quick to blame the authorities when they should know that the cause of the problem is right in the home. Forget this blame culture attitude it is ridiculous. People should take on responsibity themselves. Otherwise you have more crying about the "Nanny state"!

This whole situation is indicative of both the breakdown of good parenting and a careless attitude that unfortunately seems to be so much a part of the youth of today.

I can honestly say, its none of my business, it doesn't affect me, so I do not care.

Originally Posted by Peter Henry

Some people are just too quick to blame the authorities when they should know that the cause of the problem is right in the home. Forget this blame culture attitude it is ridiculous. People should take on responsibity themselves. Otherwise you have more crying about the "Nanny state"!

This whole situation is indicative of both the breakdown of good parenting and a careless attitude that unfortunately seems to be so much a part of the youth of today.

Indeed Pete, look at the source of the problem, not pin the blame elsewhere

Originally Posted by Saint Matt

I can honestly say, its none of my business, it doesn't affect me, so I do not care.

If you pay tax it effects you.