So, you have fought the odds and got a girl to talk to you ...

Originally Posted by chakraist

Girls love patience. Plus, it helps that I'm a very patient person and not some sex crazed lunatic. Honest

and im sure some love it when you're forward and positive

horses for courses init

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Originally Posted by Blue_SV650S

So at what point do you try and crossover? If you leave it too late you do become friends ... there is definitely a window of opportunity for 'more' than friends ... this varies with each woman/situation ....

I've potentially missed a few opportunity's by not being sure and urring on teh side of caution (yes shocker .org ... women do talk to me!! ) ... but that I'll never really know ...

Sooooo true - been there before! In fact it was an experience of the above where I totally missed the window that helped me realise that the "window" even existed so I always made sure not to miss it again - whether it worked out or not!

Originally Posted by Blue_SV650S

Unless it is a girl you have just met, and you are going for it on the night, where signals are stronger/undiluted, I actually think this one is hard to call ...

Sure there are always signals and body language ... but the longer you know them and the more comfortable they get with you, the more coalesced the signals become ... so again its hard to know if they see you as their gay best friend or salami ... .. you can read the same signals different ways at this point depending on if you actually fancy THEM or not

So at what point do you try and crossover? If you leave it too late you do become friends ... there is definitely a window of opportunity for 'more' than friends ... this varies with each woman/situation ....

I've potentially missed a few opportunity's by not being sure and urring on teh side of caution (yes shocker .org ... women do talk to me!! ) ... but that I'll never really know ...

From my experience you need to strike fairly early ... or at least if you don't go for the kill, make it clear you are attracted to them but also show intention of simply being friendly and wait until they come round ... again AKA the chakraist.. ...

True. In some situations, you leave it too late, that window quickly becomes a patio door.

Originally Posted by keithd

and im sure some love it when you're forward and positive

horses for courses init

True too.

Some times patience is the way forward.

If she grabs yer todger you might be in there.

Turn up at her gaff and go in for a tea....

When she leaves the room strip down to you pants...

The rest will progress as its meant to go on depending on her feelings for you.

Originally Posted by Grinch

Turn up at her gaff and go in for a tea....

When she leaves the room strip down to you pants...

The rest will progress as its meant to go on depending on her feelings for you.

So, how many nights in a police cell is it for you, Grinch? In total...

[Shellywoozle]

Originally Posted by DanAbnormal

If she grabs yer todger you might be in there.

Again depends on the size LOL she may laff and run

They know me on a first name basis.

Originally Posted by Shellywoozle

Again depends on the size LOL she may laff and run

What exactly is an appropriate size these says then Shell? ...

Suppose it depend on how much of a 'bucket' the lass is!?!?

Originally Posted by Blue_SV650S

.... how do you know if a girl simply being friendly or if she fancies you?

i.e. how do you know if she wants a bit more or if she doesn't like you like 'that' ...

How do you avoid that sticky situation where you have got the wrong idea?!

Are you really that socially inadequate that you have to ask?