Everybody lets be a bit honest

Originally Posted by Dicky Ticker

Anyhow I have stated my case,the jury will decide, but I abide by my principles over
privacy and consideration for others

What about the privacy of your Italian wife or the five 'step-kids' you talk of in your other thread? How would they feel if they knew their 'step-father' was posting to strangers about them?

Pot, kettle, black IMO

Ooooh.... this is gonna get messy...

Originally Posted by carty

What about the privacy of your Italian wife or the five 'step-kids' you talk of in your other thread? How would they feel if they knew their 'step-father' was posting to strangers about them?

Pot, kettle, black IMO

+Over 9000

Isnt it all about trust though ? I mean we're not all a bunch of strangers are we ? most of us on this site are part of the bigger ORG. or part of a regional group or frequent IB or tuning and talking etc, I think Neeja is entitled to his thread in the same way we,ve had threada about cake, burlesque, all sorts, personally if a fellow orger is in trouble for whatever reason we can either support him/her, offer constructive criticism or say nowt, its a judgement call I suppose, Id prefer to offer support if I can.

[anna]

Originally Posted by stewie

Isnt it all about trust though ? I mean we're not all a bunch of strangers are we ? most of us on this site are part of the bigger ORG. or part of a regional group or frequent IB or tuning and talking etc, I think Neeja is entitled to his thread in the same way we,ve had threada about cake, burlesque, all sorts, personally if a fellow orger is in trouble for whatever reason we can either support him/her, offer constructive criticism or say nowt, its a judgement call I suppose, Id prefer to offer support if I can.

Although I have many many friends from .org and I think this is a very special place because of the way that we act as a family, this forum is not private.

It is not a matter of trust, because you are posting information that is of a personal nature in a very public domain. Not everyone reading these posts are people that you know or that you would even consider friends.

Sadly I feel that you are somewhat putting your head in cloud la la land by saying that the .org world is all fluffy and nice, and not open to being abused by others.

Ok fair point, but I stand by my original point that I think we can offer support to a mate , I dont think that constitutes being in la la land

[fizzwheel]

If Neeja or anybody wants to post on a public forum their personal business well surely thats up to them. If it backfires on them, well thats their own fault.

I wouldnt do it, but there you go. Just because you wouldnt do something or cant understand why somebody else did soemthing, does that give you the right to cast judgement or point the figure at somebody else who has.

Does it matter what somebody else did or didnt do. In the big scheme of things if its not effecting you / hasnt done you any harm or talked about anybody in your own life whats the problem ?

Oh and if you detect a small amount of rantage in the above post, you'd be right.

Originally Posted by fizzwheel

rantage

Wow, what a word I love that

Originally Posted by plowsie

Wow, what a word I love that

+1, Fizz you have coined a new word

there should be no argument here, its as simple as this, if you dont like somebodys post then dont flippin read it, there are thousands of other posts on here you can read instead, nuff said!