11 year old girl to be a mum....UPDATED

Originally Posted by Viney

Its shocking. She should be made to have an abortion.

erm I'm sorry viney but I definitely don't agree with that! never will.

more of our tax money on worthless gits! who have no intentions of contributing to society but to just suck the system dry!
cos they are allowd to !!!!

forced abortion or baby should be up for adoption! bet they are living in a council estate and already living off the state!
these people should not be able to breed till they are willing to contribute and work for their money!


gets my goat!

Originally Posted by socommk23

more of our tax money on worthless gits! who have no intentions of contributing to society but to just suck the system dry!
cos they are allowd to !!!!

forced abortion or baby should be up for adoption! bet they are living in a council estate and already living off the state!
these people should not be able to breed till they are willing to contribute and work for their money!


gets my goat!

why punish the baby? any idea how much a forced abotion would cost anyway and adoption for that matter???

Originally Posted by northwind

PS, I don't want to go to Godikus's penile colony

Why? whats wrong with it does it smell?


i'll let you off for now, 'cause i like yer bike

Originally Posted by kitten

why punish the baby?

ok...abortion is harsh! but from birth the child will be looked after properly with better morals and higher standing in life if he/she is adopted by a deserving individual or couple who can look after themselves and contribute to the system for the better of this country and the child in question.

imho i believe this country is on its way down..these people being a good contribution to this...as more and more people can claim money from the system for being unemployable due to drug use and/or baby situations such as this. they then claim a house...allowance for food cloths bills etc...

something should be done to stop the ever growing population of non contributers to society!

following up on laws of underage sex is a very good start! then maybe a laws anabling the removal of the said child from the parents if they are unable to look after them properly or have no intentions of trying to find a job to support themselves.

maybe a law to introduce a licence to have a child!

population control in the extreem...but im just going on now so ill shut up!

whilst I can certainly see some of your points I dont think that adoption is relly the answer, yes there are alot of deserving parents out there but who are we really to stand here and say that she doesnt deserve to be the mum? such rules would only lead to unregistered, births, deaths and alot of resentment for the government who force seperation from a birth parent!!!
my 2pennys worth

Originally Posted by kitten

whilst I can certainly see some of your points I dont think that adoption is relly the answer, yes there are alot of deserving parents out there but who are we really to stand here and say that she doesnt deserve to be the mum? such rules would only lead to unregistered, births, deaths and alot of resentment for the government who force seperation from a birth parent!!!
my 2pennys worth

give us your two pennies on what you think should be done about the increase in underage pregnancys and therefore the increase in our taxes simply cos we decide to work and they dont!

what would honestly happen if everyone stopped working and claimed benifits from a country of non contributers!!!!

its heading that way! i know of people who have a better state of living than me, i work a 37 hour week minimum and had to work hard for it for years to get where i am.these others get more money a month than i do and dont work and go to america twice a year have a 3 bedroomed house, a car and im lucky if i can afford a tank of fuel food and cloths in a rented 2 bedroomed house.

Originally Posted by Filipe M.

She most definetely is too young, she might even be looking at her baby cousin as a "live doll", and her age might not allow her to see the complete picture. I'd try to make sure she keeps up with reality, but don't try to knock her auntie down as it will have the opposite effect and you'll find yourself as the mean one when your daughter steps up to defend her. Just show her the facts (essentially the cons, as all she can see now are the pros), and resist the temptation to pour your judgement down on her as it will just make things worse. Again, just my 2 cents (euro ones, which I believe are worth even less than 2p).

No, I take on board all you say, it is difficult trying to get the balance right, and I don't want her to feel she can't confide in me.

I think that parents should be fined as in of underage pregnant teenagers and the boys who do it, benefits should be based on the price of bread and taxes should be taken off benefits and given back to those who work.....maybe ppl would think twice about breeding if they really couldnt afford to!
just one thought,,
I'm not the government all I'm sayin is that I dont think its very black and white!

[Viney]

Originally Posted by kitten

whilst I can certainly see some of your points I dont think that adoption is relly the answer, yes there are alot of deserving parents out there but who are we really to stand here and say that she doesnt deserve to be the mum? such rules would only lead to unregistered, births, deaths and alot of resentment for the government who force seperation from a birth parent!!!
my 2pennys worth

Becuase

Shes 12 FFS. The girl can just about read an write, let alone have the huge responsibilty of bringing up a child. She knows the value of nothing, and to be honest, isnt exactly a role model for a child. Its plain wrong. Would you have liked to have a kid at 11? Do you really think that you, at 11/12 where ready to have the responsibilty of having a dependent child?