had some v shocking news-support needed

[dizzyblonde]

Originally Posted by Paws

its for the docs to decide dizzy huni, not me, i agree with you in a way-she should have to carry it and have it as it may make think twice, as i said its a no win situ-theres no right or wrong answer to it.

yeah i know, thought I'd try and give you a little bit of an idea of what its like ( if with a lot of detail ommitted) If ya wanna chat about the outcome private, and need a bit of help understanding the process of said 'termination' PM me and i'll give you my MSN addy. Cause if shes going to go through with it, the best thing to help her through it is to get geared up with some info from the none doctor approach, cause she'll need all the support she can get, and if i can help you, help her then, i'll try my best.....

All I can say is..it ain't gonna be pretty

im not gonna get involved with it huni, this all couldve been stopped before it happened but there you go, its now up to her and her mum to deal with it.
i know its not pretty-trained as nursery nurse and we had to deal with the issues concerning terminations etc, plus one of our class had to have an abortion halfway through the course.

If the B/F is 16 & she is 13, that is prosecutable...

ohhh it gets better guys..
turns out the lad ISNT 16...ohh nooo...hes 18!!!!!!!!!!

dunt ask me who told who he was 16 as i dont know and frankly i dunt want to now, im going out on the daytona for a nice long relaxing ride.

Originally Posted by Paws

ohhh it gets better guys..
turns out the lad ISNT 16...ohh nooo...hes 18!!!!!!!!!!

dunt ask me who told who he was 16 as i dont know and frankly i dunt want to now, im going out on the daytona for a nice long relaxing ride.

deffo a paedo!!!!

Blinkin heck, now this is a proper Jeremy Kylee stylee situation. Unbelievable, he definitely needs shooting now

Gobsmacked, you enjoy your ride in the sunshine and forget about it for a bit Paws

get out and enjoy the sunshine paws. it is not your problem. There are a few sites - Cow and Gate etc that show you details of what your baby looks like at certain stages. I think the youngest baby to survive was born at 21 weeks. Hopefully the doctor will tell her exactly what to expect and that she is convinced with her decision. Poor kid.

boy this is getting rougher for everyone involved ,go for a ride but dont be to distracted girl and ride safe

agreed she will need family support, i know its a shock but whats done is done, my daughter is 10 and i think of this myself stay strong paws and dont blame all the blame on your lill cousin it takes 2 to tango ;o) be there for her hunn. all the best xxx

Originally Posted by Paws

ohhh it gets better guys..
turns out the lad ISNT 16...ohh nooo...hes 18!!!!!!!!!!

dunt ask me who told who he was 16 as i dont know and frankly i dunt want to now, im going out on the daytona for a nice long relaxing ride.

Originally Posted by missyorkie_chris

Blinkin heck, now this is a proper Jeremy Kylee stylee situation. Unbelievable, he definitely needs shooting now

Gobsmacked, you enjoy your ride in the sunshine and forget about it for a bit Paws

funny how my "knee-jerk" reaction is similar to yours now that the lad is 18 instead of 16.....