update on my little cousin

Originally Posted by Bear

Yeah Stu, coz everyone knows all unwanted babies find loving foster parents and live happily ever after...

Let's move these discussions elsewhere to try to keep this one on track: see here:

http://forums.sv650.org/showthread.p...82#post1571282

cheers bear

Originally Posted by sarah

It's interesting to see how the age of consent varies across the world.

Reminds me. I MUST get my passport revalidated.

Originally Posted by Paws

ermm howd you work out that she'd be obese as shes a size 8-10?? ever thought she might be tall?? shes nearly taller than me and im 5ft 5/ 5ft 6, her das well over 6ft 6 so shes gonna be a tall lass so is right weight etc.

So she's not really your little cousin then?

Originally Posted by sarah

So she's not really your little cousin then?

lol, she should be but yes it looks like she will be taller than me , not good when shes 14 and im 23 lol

Originally Posted by Paws

baby was not planned!! shes 13 mate , abortion was discussed but when they took her docs thehy discovered she was way too far to be able to do anything (as in she was 6-7 moths gone)-apparently she "didnt know"
I dont think he will be unwanted as their will be a couple out there who cant have a baby/afford ivf and so can adopt him

I know she didn't plan to get pregnant. But she has planned to have it. Fair enough if she didn't find out until after they would be allowed to terminate it, then of course, barring any complications she has to have it.

Again, this isn't meant to cause offence, I'm just interested, but how the heck does a 5"6', size 8-10 girl not notice she's pregnant until 6-7 months? How did no-one else notice? I think she must have known herself before that time and was scared to go to the docs. Ergo, she planned to keep it.

I do agree with the person who posted that you should maybe try and build bridges before the birth. If she does keep it no woman can resist a new-born baby so you'll want to see it / her. If she doesn't keep it (it's possible you might never even see it if she does give it away immediately?) then it would be good for her to get family support and try to help her make sure the situation doesn't arise again.

Cheers,
Matt

[Stu]

Originally Posted by Paws

ermm howd you work out that she'd be obese as shes a size 8-10?? ever thought she might be tall?? shes nearly taller than me and im 5ft 5/ 5ft 6, her das well over 6ft 6 so shes gonna be a tall lass so is right weight etc.

Sorry, I thought you would spot my grosse exageration of size 10 being considered obese, but my point is even more valid then that hopefully natural would be best.

Originally Posted by Paws

Right update:

shes still in hosp, they are doing a scan on her kidneys and bladder as they arent happy (not sure if it due to baby squashing them or infection), also her glucose levels are v high and her dad is diabetic so running lots of tests at mo!
Consultant has now said he would rather she has a natural birth-no c section.

I wish her well

Originally Posted by Paws

cheers bear

errr, I hope that was for the other thread (a very good idea) rather than the sarcastic comment which I feel was a little harsh

Originally Posted by cartwrim

edited for lenth

There is a vast difference from being in denial and planning. If someone was in mortgage arrears and couldn't face opening letters from the bank, I would describe that as 'planning' to move out of their house.

Originally Posted by Stu

There is a vast difference from being in denial and planning. If someone was in mortgage arrears and couldn't face opening letters from the bank, I would describe that as 'planning' to move out of their house.

For clarity, do you mean would, or do you mean wouldn't?

Originally Posted by cartwrim

If she does keep it no woman can resist a new-born baby so you'll want to see it / her.

Beg to differ on this point.

Originally Posted by Ping

Beg to differ on this point.

You're my hero

[Stu]

Originally Posted by cartwrim

For clarity, do you mean would, or do you mean wouldn't?

yup of course I mean wouldn't describe that as planning, just being in denial