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Cymraeg_Atodeg

09-10-12, 04:42 PM

It's a bit over rated tbh. Fair enough I love it :D , but been over year since last, so not to bothered haha. And I'm NOT gay!

Those who deny it are the most likely...

I'm not normally one to call these things out, but it had pictures of aroused man bits in the link ;-)

Hadn't looked, literally first link on google if you type in "japanese love dolls"

dizzyblonde

09-10-12, 04:50 PM

Correction, it was Jive...or what we could remember of it haha \\:D/

Don't forget the salsa......;)

Dave20046

09-10-12, 05:39 PM

If you look very young for your age - give me a pm!

dizzyblonde

09-10-12, 05:41 PM

If you look very young for your age - give me a pm!

I do, but I'm taken ;)

Bibio

09-10-12, 05:43 PM

I do, but I'm taken ;)

i think that mirror is lying to you again dizzy :smt082

dizzyblonde

09-10-12, 06:18 PM

i think that mirror is lying to you again dizzy :smt082

The mirror don't lie to me, it says haggard tired old fecker with Asda shopping bags under her eyes.

However when org fellas say you look 18 on a photo not so long ago, it makes you feel nice. :)

Widepants and Smithy were wearing beer goggles I swear!

Bibio

09-10-12, 06:24 PM

ahhh that says it all pants and smithers. i have often wondered how smithers chats girls up :-)

joshwalker094

09-10-12, 07:04 PM

If you look very young for your age - give me a pm!

Hmmm why??????? I don't think I do ! Maybe if I had a a shave I might

Jayneflakes

09-10-12, 07:50 PM

MTFU and get out on the ale. :-P

This is seriously great advice! :cool:

The thing to remember is that when you are looking for a partner, you have to think to yourself "Can I stand being alone in a room with this person for the rest of my cold miserable life?" That thought will pretty much end your desire to find a partner unless you find someone as miserable/lonely/desperate/ as you currently feel!

To be honest, there are so many useless, spoiled, whining tarts out there, I would rather spend the rest of my days alone on a deserted island than have to wade through that again! Too many people feel the opposite though, they would rather have a mediocre relationship than be alone! If you do think the former, when you do finally find some one worthy, they will be so pretty damn spectacular, that you will want to change that feeling and that is when you know that you are ready to settle down. :pale:

For now, enjoy doing stuff. Have a laugh with your mates, don't sit at home pining for a girl that will not love you. Going to the pub is about more than just getting rat faced (no really, it is!). I go to the pub to hang out with my mates, warm up after a cold ride, enjoy a pig face burger and enjoy good local live bands. :D

Back in my twenties, I was an outdoor sports junkie. I did things that were amazing, I went on the sort of holidays that you just cannot do if you are shackled to the old ball and chain. So my advice is this, live your life, get some experience of life under your belt, do some incredible things and stop worrying about getting laid. There really is more to life!

By the way, being gay is fine, if you need a chat, Aunty Jayne is here and I have some helpful literature! :smt103

widepants

09-10-12, 08:26 PM

The mirror don't lie to me, it says haggard tired old fecker with Asda shopping bags under her eyes.

However when org fellas say you look 18 on a photo not so long ago, it makes you feel nice. :)

Widepants and Smithy were wearing beer goggles I swear!
I have seen you are your worst in North Wales.

good bloody job ma visor was steamed up

andrewsmith

09-10-12, 08:38 PM

Its all been said, now (as Widey and Dizzy). CUT AND RUN been there done that.
A now friend did it with a now ex friend (good riddance tbh). One bit of advice I do give out on relationships (mine aint good at all) is; don't **** on your own doorstep! As it never ends well

Josh as Jamesmio said if you want to see a mix get into the bar trade, I did chat up several times and watched a master at work.

just go and have a hamshank and think sexy thoughts
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I now feel sick!!!!!!!

The mirror don't lie to me, it says haggard tired old fecker with Asda shopping bags under her eyes.

However when org fellas say you look 18 on a photo not so long ago, it makes you feel nice. :)

Widepants and Smithy were wearing beer goggles I swear!

Nope stone cold sober,

joshwalker094

09-10-12, 09:21 PM

Well in from a quick ride, did 11.7 miles 50 minutes 14mph average, not bad considering its been a few months since I rode a bicycle, and I'm definetly not gay, and I'm not arsed about getting laid, although it would be nice more often. Medicore relationship would do.
Dieting is hard, but I'm gonna stick at it this time, weight myself tomoz I don't have a clue.

Wideboy

09-10-12, 09:28 PM

and I'm definetly not gay,

awww dang! :smt090

dizzyblonde

09-10-12, 09:33 PM

Diets are rubbish, you lose weight, feel good, then put it back on!

Healthy eating, exercise and sticking to it, is better. You can have your cake and eat it....although for me, not enough exercise, is my downfall!

joshwalker094

09-10-12, 09:44 PM

Spank86

10-10-12, 06:37 AM

I believe they call it a sandwich.

That or a salad/pasta.

missyburd

10-10-12, 06:38 AM

I suppose I'm not really dieting, I'm trying cut down my portions eat healthier and exercise more. Whilst stopping chocolate/sweets/cakes fizzy drinks ( they are my downfall )
Guys as I go college I normally have a butty, what would be an alternative to barm cakes / bread?
We tend to use up the previous night's tea leftovers for lunches, or I make a big pot of veg soup to last a couple of days. I stopped eating shop bought bread a few months ago cos it made me feel bloated and since acquiring a breadmaker I've not had these issues.
Crackers and cheese are a lunch favourite too.

gruntygiggles

10-10-12, 08:03 AM

Make your own flatbreads is the best way tot do it, then roll them up with your choice of filling, or you can just use shop bought tortillas. I you buy shop bought, get corn tortillas, slightly less fat and calories than flour tortillas, but they also contain corn flour, so better nutritionally.

If you see it at your supermarket though, buy some masa flour, sometimes called masa harina. It is pure corn flour (not the fine white corn flour that we use to thicken stews with). It is ground from corn. All you have to do to make fresh corn tortillas is mix 2 cups of masa with 1 and 1/2 to 2 cups water (add slowly until a ball of dough forms that is pliable but not sticky).
No need to knead this dough as it is corn flour and is gluten free. Just form into balls the size of tennis balls or a bit smaller, roll out between two sheets of grease proof paper (so you don't add any more flour) and cook.

Put a flat bottom griddle or frying pan over a medium heat, allow it to get to temp and cook the tortillas for about a minute each side until bubbles start to form and they are lightly toasted on both sides. If you wrap then in a clean tea towel they will stay warm to eat then, or if you let the cool and wrap tightly in paper, then cling film, they will keep for a few days easily.

Gluten free so won't bloat you...would be great for you Maria. You can even do what I do and mix crushed sweet corn into the dough as well, so you get the texture, extra flavour and extra goodness from the whole corn :-)

Fillings...instead of using mayo, use low fat creme fraiche/low fat humous etc. just as tasty, if not more so but no mayo.

Remember, all fats like oils, butters, lards contain 600 calories per quarter cup. mayo has a very high oil content, so be careful with it.

Hope that helps :-)

gruntygiggles

10-10-12, 08:05 AM

Sorry for the typos, stupid iPad and I can't be bothered fighting with it to edit :-)

yorkie_chris

10-10-12, 08:06 AM

And a lot of the make your own butties are a hell of a lot cheaper than buying a butty every day!

gruntygiggles

10-10-12, 08:10 AM

And a lot of the make your own butties are a hell of a lot cheaper than buying a butty every day!

Oh hell yeah.

Get a small ham joint for a five, boil for 30 minutes, roast for an hour at 140 and you can slice when cool to have ham sandwiches or wraps for a week easily.

arc123

10-10-12, 08:55 AM

Remember, all fats like oils, butters, lards contain 600 calories per tablespoon, mayo has a very high oil content, so be careful with it.

was this one of your typos? Helpful advice there, but 600 cals per table spoon of oil is way off the mark. more lime 100 - 150

Dipper

10-10-12, 09:00 AM

How far is your commute to college? I started commuting the 10 miles to work 2 or 3 times a week by pushbike 3 years ago, lost a stone and saved a fortune in fuel. If there's not a shower at college just take it easy on the way in and have a blast on the way home. Feeling fit is probably the best thing to boost confidence and make you feel good in yourself.

gruntygiggles

10-10-12, 09:06 AM

was this one of your typos? Helpful advice there, but 600 cals per table spoon of oil is way off the mark. more lime 100 - 150

Not a typo, just a mistake with measures, should have read per quarter cup...ta, will go and edit.

The amount of extra calories that can go into a daily diet through the use of a spoon of this here and a bit of that there or a pick at a few things can be crazy.

Wideboy

10-10-12, 09:08 AM

I used to make my own bread with a bread maker and it was much better than shop bought. I have a physical job so tend to eat a lot, I'd have one doorstep in the morning, one at lunc, that would do me for the day until tea and im not exactly a small framed person. That and just drinking water throughout the day and that weight just fell off.

Now im lazy and eat shop bought, forever starving and even now I've eaten all my food for the day already.

arc123

10-10-12, 09:12 AM

The amount of extra calories that can go into a daily diet through the use of a spoon of this here and a bit of that there or a pick at a few things can be crazy.

Quite agree - I find it's discipline over the smaller things that can and do make a big difference.

Spank86

10-10-12, 09:24 AM

Now im lazy and eat shop bought, forever starving and even now I've eaten all my food for the day already.
I havent eaten or drunk anything yet today.

Thats about normal for me, still got hours till I'll need a sandwich.

joshwalker094

10-10-12, 09:32 AM

So far today, 4 scrambled eggs and bit of red sauce. No milk or anything like that. For lunch I have a chicken breast, maybe chicken salad pitta? And a apple. But what to have for tea is the question

Spank86

10-10-12, 09:36 AM

well I think you;ve covered your protein requirements at least.

joshwalker094

10-10-12, 09:40 AM

True, but it's what to have for tea tonight, I could have chicken again, pasta and a tomato sauce?
Then off out for a hour ride about 8pm try do 15 miles tonight.

missyburd

10-10-12, 09:41 AM

So far today, 4 scrambled eggs and bit of red sauce. No milk or anything like that.
You can make scrambled eggs without milk? :neutral:

dizzyblonde

10-10-12, 09:44 AM

^^^^UMMM yes!

joshwalker094

10-10-12, 09:45 AM

Yes :/ not as nice though, and not as nice without a peice of toast something

Spank86

10-10-12, 09:47 AM

How about a nice bit of fish?

missyburd

10-10-12, 10:07 AM

^^^^UMMM yes!

Yes :/ not as nice though, and not as nice without a peice of toast something

Well I get that you can...I don't get why you'd want to. There's cutting down and there's just being daft :-P You can eat perfectly healthily without having to cut out the good bits!

Mackerel, jacket spud and fresh veg?

dizzyblonde

10-10-12, 10:09 AM

I don't make scrambled eggs, I get peg to make fratatas.......mmmm courgettes, mmmmm mushrooms........mmmmmm foooooood!

gruntygiggles

10-10-12, 10:16 AM

You would be better off having two eggs, scrambled with semi skimmed milk and a slice of granary toast, seeded loaf, whole wheat toast.

4 eggs on their own is a big hit of protein in the morning. It is good as an appetite suppressant, but not so good for your bowels, lol. Add some fibre and carb element and even some olive oil spread like bertolli spread on your toast will make for a more balanced breakfast.

Fr dinner, you could do a variation on what we had last night. I made a pork chilli with pork loin steaks that have been in the freezer for months.

Chopped onion and a few cloves of garlic fried in a teaspoon of oil until tender, throw in your meat, pork or chicken or beef, anything really, just chop it up. Then add either ground cumin, a cinnamon stick and a chopped chilli, or just some chilli powder and pour over chicken or beef stock until meat is just covered.

Cook for half an hour, add a tin of red kidney beans, butter beans or similar and cook for another 20 minutes. Serve with rice or tortillas. Use lean meat and the only fat going in is the teeny bit of oil at the beginning. Tastes great and you can also pile in bell peppers to up your veg intake.

Get creative, there are loads of ways to eat healthily without scrimping on flavour!

Spank86

10-10-12, 12:10 PM

Asda are doing tins of tuna mayo and sweetcorn for £1, goes great with a jacket potato and some cheese.

Thats my fallback dinner.

Wideboy

10-10-12, 12:20 PM

I just been yo there, Asda bbq ranch chicken beget and millionaires shortbread, should see me through to 2pm

ClunkintheUK

10-10-12, 12:46 PM

The cycle to college thing is a really good idea. I used to cycle 10 miles to work each day (and back again). I've never had a problem with my weight and this didn't change my weight much. What it did do was change the muscle/fat ratio, and massively increase my appetite. Unfortunately in the new job I can't cycle in and i really miss it. Plus you don't have to make time, its "free miles".

Also I wouldn't weigh yourself. It doesn't matter what you weigh. Infact if you start doing a bit of exercise you'll probably find your weight goes up, even as your volume goes down, which will make it feel like you are going backwards. Your target seems to be looking good and feeling good (confidence being a natural by-product), in the collective experiance of me and my friends, your actual weight is counterproductive to both of these.

Dipper

10-10-12, 02:51 PM

If you find it hard to motivate yourself with the cycling thing then you could try a cycling club, there are sporty ones or if you want a more social type there is CTC, they usually have local weekly runs which anyone can join in, the pace is steady and it's not all blokes:D

joshwalker094

10-10-12, 05:42 PM

Right guys I'm stuck babysitting now all night, no chicken no fish, plenty off whole meal bread, beans spaghetti and eggs, what should I have? Beans on toast? Or 3 scrambled eggs on 2 whole meal toast bit of flora butterly spread?

Spank86

10-10-12, 05:45 PM

I'd go with the beans, too much protein is as bad as too much anything else and I'd say 6-8 eggs a day is overdoing it a little.

gruntygiggles

10-10-12, 06:21 PM

Don't overdo the eggs, as said, 4 in the morning is too much...check out how much cholesterol there is in an egg!

Beans or spaghetti on toast will be perfect!

Wideboy

10-10-12, 06:37 PM

it certainly is, egg yokes are full of cholesterol. Eggs are a good source of protein but fattening, weight lifters will eat the egg white and leave the yokes to keep the fat off, So if you like eggs that much buy some egg whites only.

also rice cakes, nothing to them and they will keep hunger pains at bay. wholegrain is good for just about everything in your body.

Don't fall for all this healthy smoothy/fruit juice culture going round aswell, yes they are packed with fibre and vitamins but because it takes some many fruit pieces to make the drink they usually have a higher sugar level than most fizzy drinks so just eat the fruit instead.

also you more likely to loose weight and build muscle if you have a good level of whole grain and vitamins inside you as well as keeping hydrated, all the basic things your body needs.

when i was lifting i used to start my day off with porridge and fruit for breaky, wholegrain bread sandwiches and crackers at lunch, fruit for mid afternoon snack and tea was a good filling home cooked meal. Protein was supplemented throughout the day to aid muscle build and recovery.

but i don't do it any more as i don't have the time, might get back into it over winter, it is a good and proven way to loose fat and build muscle with very little aerobic work.

joshwalker094

10-10-12, 07:48 PM

well spaghetti on toast it was. i might try go on a bike ride at 6:30am before work,
think porridge with skimmed milk for brekkie, and ham/lettuce on wholemeal bread for lucnh with an apple for a snack .

widepants

10-10-12, 08:08 PM

this has gone from "cant get laid " to Jamie bloody Oliver .lol
Random as

joshwalker094

10-10-12, 08:15 PM

this has gone from "cant get laid " to Jamie bloody Oliver .lol
Random as

true
and oi
i could of got laid saturday night, but i wouldnt take advantage of a drunken girl!

Stuuk1

10-10-12, 08:37 PM

true
and oi
i could of got laid saturday night, but i wouldnt take advantage of a drunken girl!

Fool.

Sally

11-10-12, 10:43 AM

true
and oi
i could of got laid saturday night, but i wouldnt take advantage of a drunken girl!

Not really taking advantage if you've been there before, she was your ex, no reason why she would regret it, and you would've got your oats!

Biker Biggles

11-10-12, 10:48 AM

Not really taking advantage if you've been there before, she was your ex, no reason why she would regret it, and you would've got your oats!

I can think of at least one case where a bloke is doing time for exactly that because legally it is rape.

Sally

11-10-12, 12:14 PM

Biker Biggles

11-10-12, 12:37 PM

In no way was I condoning/suggesting rape/statutory rape, josh described her as a bit drunk, hardly suggesting she was deemed incapable of making a judgement or was so smashed she had no idea what she was doing/passed out. But I don't know all the facts, so I take back what I said

Absolutely.I was'nt having a go,just pointing something out that is not very well understood.We dont want anyone posting stuff that might get themselves in trouble.:(

joshwalker094

11-10-12, 04:50 PM

tbh she couldnt remember the first half of the night when she came round, but when we woke at 5am, she remembered everything from then on. It wouldnt of felt or been right tbh, two years since i last saw her, and she is supposed to be seeing a mate of mine ?? so i think i did the right move at the end of day. If she wants to be silly about it then fair enough/ or maybe she regrets the night idk, but i need to move on.
Day 3 of dieting not bad, again stuck babysitting all night and no food in. So 3 scrambled eggs some beans, and 3 pieces of toast no butter for tea i think.
then at 8 im off for an hour bike ride try 15 mile tonight

yorkie_chris

11-10-12, 05:11 PM

Probably a good call.

joshwalker094

11-10-12, 09:22 PM

Lycra off, puddles emptied from shoes.
Cant feel legs,12.2 miles tonight in the rain, about 45minutes
roughly 16 mph average and 790 calories burnt.
:D

The Idle Biker

11-10-12, 10:07 PM

tbh she couldnt remember the first half of the night when she came round, but when we woke at 5am, she remembered everything from then on.

You could've had something just for old times sake :confused:

joshwalker094

11-10-12, 10:11 PM

True, but I stand my ground that I did the right thing.
And all I got to do was to play with those perky Tiny boobs of hers :D

Wideboy

12-10-12, 06:48 AM

You could've had something just for old times sake :confused:

Lmao

BTW mate you really should cut the eggs, they're not particularly good for you and I'm sure the recommendation is only 2 a week

gruntygiggles

12-10-12, 07:29 AM

If you are cooking your eggs without the use of saturated fats, it actually isn't too bad, but you should be looking at averaging an egg per day...so 7 across a whole week.

Too much of even a good thing can be bad for you.

Dave20046

12-10-12, 08:41 AM

Lmao

BTW mate you really should cut the eggs, they're not particularly good for you and I'm sure the recommendation is only 2 a week

Are you joking?
I get through 15 a week

gruntygiggles

12-10-12, 09:18 AM

Are you joking?
I get through 15 a week

The recommendation used to be 2 a week, but it has since been understood that's whilst eggs do contain a lot of cholesterol, especially in the yolk, the danger is mainly in the fact that are usually cooked using some form of saturated fat. Most nutritionists will now say up to 7 a week, more if you only have the whites. Just be careful how you cook them :-)

Dave20046

12-10-12, 05:42 PM

The recommendation used to be 2 a week, but it has since been understood that's whilst eggs do contain a lot of cholesterol, especially in the yolk, the danger is mainly in the fact that are usually cooked using some form of saturated fat. Most nutritionists will now say up to 7 a week, more if you only have the whites. Just be careful how you cook them :-)
Ah okay, didn't think it'd be down to cholesterol, thought it might be some other warning I'd missed! (luckily the simpsons alerted me to the cholesterol situation) - I'd read they contain 'good' cholesterol that actually lowers 'bad' cholesterol.

joshwalker094

12-10-12, 07:53 PM

well another good day, weetabix for brekkie, apple and wholemeal ham/lettuce butty for lunch. flapjack as a late afternoon snack. then veggies chicken breast and new potatoes with gravy for tea, no ride tonight as my dad has lent my bike, now its my brothers birthday so do i have a piece of chocolate cake? im feeling very peckish or a bowl of rice crispies? and save chocolate cake for sunday as a treat ?

joshwalker094

12-10-12, 09:03 PM

had the chocolate cake. yuck, wasn't worth it, now i don't if its cause i haven't had chocolate all week or if it was just nasty .

The Idle Biker

12-10-12, 09:29 PM

Josh, why do you worry about your weight? Why not just make sure you stay fairly healthy and just try your luck with tubby/ fat birds who are not vain and don't judge a book by its cover?

Just enjoy yourself.

Some of the most fun I've had in bed is with fat birds.

missyburd

12-10-12, 09:39 PM

Some of the most fun I've had in bed is with fat birds.
You been watching Strictly? Have you seen Lisa Riley move? Fat bird dance bloody good :mrgreen:

widepants

12-10-12, 09:56 PM

You been watching Strictly? Have you seen Lisa Riley move? Fat bird dance bloody good :mrgreen:
yea but they are a dead weight to get off your face:smt115

joshwalker094

12-10-12, 09:58 PM

who said i wanted a fat bird? im not being shallow or anything, but they're not for me.

Bibio

12-10-12, 10:04 PM

who said i wanted a fat bird? im not being shallow or anything, but they're not for me.

you don't know what your missing :cool:

andrewsmith

12-10-12, 10:05 PM

http://static2.fjcdn.com/thumbnails/comments/must...+resist...+knee+joke+_fc6f3e7a788e030969f10 9e805149834.gif

widepants

12-10-12, 10:06 PM

you don't know what your missing :cool:
roll them in flour and poke the damp bit

Bibio

12-10-12, 10:40 PM

slap the fat and ride the waves of pleasure :-)

BanannaMan

13-10-12, 05:58 AM

From now on

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_detailpage&v=VMnjF1O4eH0

yorkie_chris

14-10-12, 02:19 PM

My friend found this written in the sh*thouse in a pub the other week...

http://img820.imageshack.us/img820/6484/39536010151023927732131.jpg

maviczap

14-10-12, 03:41 PM

Remember don't get the wrong model, when you could have had the Ghia model, but bought the base 1.1 because you were so desperate.

Getting the 1.1 on long term finance will be worse than getting a second hand, but well looked after 2.2 Ghia

keith_d

14-10-12, 04:25 PM

Just remember what a fat girlfriend and a pink moped have in common....

... they can be fun to ride until your mates find out. :)

joshwalker094

28-10-12, 09:08 AM

Well she turned up again last night :/ stupid cow! Made sure we didn't do much, not getting hurt again. Took her home at 7 this morning.
Diets going ok, don't know if l have lost any weight as I haven't weighed myself once. Not been on the push bike for over a week, got a new one the other day and its broke :/ will be ready for Tuesday then off out on it :D
As for girls, not much going on :/

maviczap

28-10-12, 09:13 AM

She's definitely using you as a soft touch mate, she's not the one for you IMHO

yorkie_chris

28-10-12, 09:31 AM

Took her home at 7 this morning.

Well if you're going to be a mug and an easy lift home you might as well have had an end away.

If it happens again take her home on the bike riding like an absolute mental. I find that stops people asking for lifts quite nicely.

joshwalker094

28-10-12, 09:35 AM

I walked her home haha
I agree though that she is just using me now! My mum isn't happy at all.
She ain't the one I agree. I'm not even gonna bothered messaging her. She was trying it on for an hour or two but she can get lost! The stupid drunk, she couldn't even remember the first half of the night.

widepants

28-10-12, 10:00 AM

for good sake just **** her and **** er off.One in the eye and all that

missyburd

28-10-12, 10:01 AM

Just cease all contact if she's messing you about (which she clearly is) and tell her to **** off and use someone else if she turns up at your door, life's too short. You need to be cruel to be kind, to yourself.

andrewsmith

28-10-12, 10:35 AM

Agree with all of the above.
Cease contact, if she knocks ignore it!

sent from a phone

Wideboy

28-10-12, 12:51 PM

why the feeb did you let her in?

if your not going to introduce the captain to the pie then simply tell her to go jump in some one mugs bed and **** off, then slam the door in her face. job done.

she's a pleb and a user, she clearly doesn't care about your feelings so why even give her the time of day? let alone be her friend.

HoL

28-10-12, 01:53 PM

introduce the captain to the pie

ROFL :lol:

dawn07

28-10-12, 05:37 PM

What you put out you get back Josh.
Just relax and be happy and love will find you. And confidence comes with age! Once you get as old as me it's easy!:smt056

joshwalker094

28-10-12, 05:58 PM

Biker Biggles

28-10-12, 06:17 PM

Is she fit?
If so send her round here and let me entertain her.

maviczap

28-10-12, 06:22 PM

I walked her home haha
I agree though that she is just using me now! My mum isn't happy at all.
She ain't the one I agree.

Shows you are a gentleman by doing that mate.

Can see why your mum ain't happy

Well I'm extremely tired from again not being able to sleep whilst she was here.
Can't even have a quick nap as I'll wake up to early. I text her before saying hope she had a safe journey and enjoys herself whilst visiting her gran ( I hope she said gran, could of been aunty), and hopefully speak soon.

Not text back or anything so Fack her!!
Thanks for the replys people
I love you orgers

You need to remember all of this the next time she calls at your house ****ed up on a Saturday night. Turn your phone off too

joshwalker094

28-10-12, 06:27 PM

Fairly fit. Your far too old for her haha.
I'm more tha happy to entertain her, but not when she's pished. Anyway I'm trying to move on like I have for the last 3 weeks

joshwalker094

28-10-12, 06:31 PM

Shows you are a gentleman by doing that mate.

Can see why your mum ain't happy

You need to remember all of this the next time she calls at your house ****ed up on a Saturday night. Turn your phone off too

Cheers Mav,

MisterTommyH

28-10-12, 08:02 PM

Seriously mate, you aren't going to move on anywhere if you're quite happy to keep her as a friend when she ain't p1ssed.

Nothing wrong with bring friends with exs when it doesn't work out, provided they aren't users - because if they are they'll use that friendship as an excuse to use you again.

Been there, done it, learnt the lesson.

Or as others have said. If she's happy to use, then play her at her own game, get what you can, and don't feel guilty about it.

The way I see it there are two ways to go about it, and no middle ground that doesn't see you fetting fecked in the head.

Dave20046

28-10-12, 08:23 PM

Well I'm extremely tired from again not being able to sleep whilst she was here.
Can't even have a quick nap as I'll wake up to early. I text her before saying hope she had a safe journey and enjoys herself whilst visiting her gran ( I hope she said gran, could of been aunty), and hopefully speak soon.

Not text back or anything so Fack her!!
Thanks for the replys people
I love you orgers

Stop thinking, stop worrying.

Bothering yourself about people texting back will just do your head in (thanks though, you just reminded me I forgot to text a mate back from about 2 days ago!) there's too much **** going on in the world to over analyse tiny little things like that.
Same with worrying if it was her Gran or Aunty, you're obviously a nice chap the thought was there - that's all that counts - most blokes wouldn't even think it let alone say it they'd just fart and open a beer. Then maybe after a few text her on the off chance she's naked or even better inclined to get naked and nearby.