Divorced 19 years and .... - SV650.org

Bri w · 26-10-09, 09:47 PM

Or perhaps it should read, "stalked by ex-wife."

Split 20yrs, divorced for 19yrs, and still all hell explodes too often. Married too young, grew up and grew apart. Because of the children, we were in contact often. I paid the maint, + extra on a regular basis so she could give them the best - and I wouldn't be seen as a sugar daddy for them, spoiling them whilst their mum couldn't do stuff for them was never going to happen.

I remarried 15yrs ago, to number 2 who has always tried her best for them too. But sadly with limited success.

Down the years my ex has turned up at all sorts of family do's. My mum and dad's golden anni, various birthday bashes.

Last Xmas the same but with the biggest almighty rumble, and fallout that lasted for months. Found out a few gems from them, like apparently I'd never paid the maint. FFS, I'd even paid it when they were at uni when strictly speaking I didn't have to.

Fast forward to this weekend. Got all the family together for my birthday bash. Great Saturday, taking them out on the bike. Great meal on the evening. Out with the dog yesterday on the beach. She turns up lunchtime, and starts World War 357.

Today the eldest girl tells me that she'd told mum about Mrs B's 50th in June, to Rome. The ex has only gone and booked the same holiday, at the same time in the same hotel.

It would be a shame to spend my twilight years in Durham jail but...

Breathe in, hold, and relax - rant over.

26-10-09, 09:50 PM

Fookin ell mate.

Now where did I put that bunny and that big pot?

Spiderman · 26-10-09, 09:52 PM

jeez, some people eh?

Change the rome trip for you and yours and dont tell a soul, let crazy go out there on her own

Bri w · 26-10-09, 09:57 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Spiderman

jeez, some people eh?

Change the rome trip for you and yours and dont tell a soul, let crazy go out there on her own

Now that is an awesome idea!

Red Herring · 26-10-09, 09:59 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Spiderman

jeez, some people eh?

Change the rome trip for you and yours and dont tell a soul, let crazy go out there on her own

Exactly what I was going to say, don't even tell the wife, (the current one) it would be a cracking surprise.

Spiderman · 26-10-09, 10:01 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Bri w

Now that is an awesome idea!

Quote:

Originally Posted by Scoobs in a completey different thread

Who votes Spidey as the forum's official advice giver? Everyone a gem mate. EV-ER-Y-ONE.

jayzuz i'm on form tonight

Bri w · 26-10-09, 10:03 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Spiderman

jayzuz i'm on form tonight

All hail the mighty Spidey

Take a bow my son

Spiderman · 26-10-09, 10:05 PM

i give great advice to eveyone but myself, thats the irony. My own life is a fekin mess

Bri w · 26-10-09, 10:07 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Spiderman

i give great advice to eveyone but myself, thats the irony. My own life is a fekin mess

Lie back on the couch, and tell the org all that ails you oh mighty Spidey.

Spiderman · 26-10-09, 10:11 PM

well since you asked.....

tis webby stuff aint as sticky as it used to be...

crawling walls is getting tedious...

caught my fair share of crims and hung em from lamposts for the finest criminal minds to convict em ... only to see em get off with a slap on the wrist!

Penguin keeps being a pain in the bedroom, yeh none of you knew about that did you...me and old penggy boy.

You know, the usual run of the mill superhero in a cool costume kind of life worries.

26-10-09, 09:47 PM	#1
Bri w Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Turre, Almeria Posts: 668	Divorced 19 years and .... Or perhaps it should read, "stalked by ex-wife." Split 20yrs, divorced for 19yrs, and still all hell explodes too often. Married too young, grew up and grew apart. Because of the children, we were in contact often. I paid the maint, + extra on a regular basis so she could give them the best - and I wouldn't be seen as a sugar daddy for them, spoiling them whilst their mum couldn't do stuff for them was never going to happen. I remarried 15yrs ago, to number 2 who has always tried her best for them too. But sadly with limited success. Down the years my ex has turned up at all sorts of family do's. My mum and dad's golden anni, various birthday bashes. Last Xmas the same but with the biggest almighty rumble, and fallout that lasted for months. Found out a few gems from them, like apparently I'd never paid the maint. FFS, I'd even paid it when they were at uni when strictly speaking I didn't have to. Fast forward to this weekend. Got all the family together for my birthday bash. Great Saturday, taking them out on the bike. Great meal on the evening. Out with the dog yesterday on the beach. She turns up lunchtime, and starts World War 357. Today the eldest girl tells me that she'd told mum about Mrs B's 50th in June, to Rome. The ex has only gone and booked the same holiday, at the same time in the same hotel. It would be a shame to spend my twilight years in Durham jail but... Breathe in, hold, and relax - rant over. __________________ *"It's not the years in your life, it's the life in your years."* Currently - Fighting the urge... seen a nice Triumph America Previously - Honda CB125, Honda CB400-4 & BSA B40, Moto Guzzi 850, Yamaha RD250, Suzuki GT380, Kawasaki Z1B, Kawasaki Z650, Honda VFR, Triumph Street Triple R.

26-10-09, 09:50 PM	#2
Scoobs Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Divorced 19 years and .... Fookin ell mate. Now where did I put that bunny and that big pot?

26-10-09, 09:52 PM	#3
Spiderman Where the hell am I? Mega Poster Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: Swingin' thru the urban jungle Posts: 7,451	Re: Divorced 19 years and .... jeez, some people eh? Change the rome trip for you and yours and dont tell a soul, let crazy go out there on her own __________________ . "Computers are great! Not for communicating tho. They have one fundamental flaw ... they don't have eyebrows." AlpineCarStereo: you win ....... eeerrr ..... ummm ..... my undying support of you, the greatest Mod this forum has ever known. My Leige. davepreston: i bow to your modding godliness. vixis: He's this really cute Persian tea-boy, Im so not giving you his number :P

26-10-09, 10:05 PM	#8
Spiderman Where the hell am I? Mega Poster Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: Swingin' thru the urban jungle Posts: 7,451	Re: Divorced 19 years and .... i give great advice to eveyone but myself, thats the irony. My own life is a fekin mess __________________ . "Computers are great! Not for communicating tho. They have one fundamental flaw ... they don't have eyebrows." AlpineCarStereo: you win ....... eeerrr ..... ummm ..... my undying support of you, the greatest Mod this forum has ever known. My Leige. davepreston: i bow to your modding godliness. vixis: He's this really cute Persian tea-boy, Im so not giving you his number :P

26-10-09, 10:11 PM	#10
Spiderman Where the hell am I? Mega Poster Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: Swingin' thru the urban jungle Posts: 7,451	Re: Divorced 19 years and .... well since you asked..... tis webby stuff aint as sticky as it used to be... crawling walls is getting tedious... caught my fair share of crims and hung em from lamposts for the finest criminal minds to convict em ... only to see em get off with a slap on the wrist! Penguin keeps being a pain in the bedroom, yeh none of you knew about that did you...me and old penggy boy. You know, the usual run of the mill superhero in a cool costume kind of life worries. __________________ . "Computers are great! Not for communicating tho. They have one fundamental flaw ... they don't have eyebrows." AlpineCarStereo: you win ....... eeerrr ..... ummm ..... my undying support of you, the greatest Mod this forum has ever known. My Leige. davepreston: i bow to your modding godliness. vixis: He's this really cute Persian tea-boy, Im so not giving you his number :P

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