Abortion

Originally Posted by Magnum

Yes if she didnt want to see the child or be a part of its life.

And then when she showed up after 18 years claiming parental rights you wouldn't have a leg to stand on.....it's a sad factor of life but every do gooder always favours the mother, be it social services, courts or the lesbian, i knit my own sandals out of yoghurt brigade.
As a bloke, you'll never win!!!!

Originally Posted by dizzyblonde

Its good that you ask us these questions, and indeed put your views across, as it only widens your eyes a little so to speak, rather than being narrow minded. Its better to go through life with your eyes wide open than your eyes wide shut

On the plus side of making this thread it has opened my eyes, but in the process ive come accross as a c0ck



For the mums out there, after all that pain, worry, and anxiety... is it worth it having a child?

[jamesterror]

Originally Posted by Magnum

On the plus side of making this thread it has opened my eyes, but in the process ive come accross as a c0ck

I've heard a lot of women say men are c#cks, its your view, ultimatly its a woman's decision though as they have to go through it..

If I got my gf pregnant, we'd both agree to an abortion due to the fact we both plan to go to uni (seperating though) and think it will damage our futures and also that we wouldn't be able to support the child - Have had the conversation which I found useful as you know your position if it does happen :P but also their views.

[dizzyblonde]

Originally Posted by Magnum

On the plus side of making this thread it has opened my eyes, but in the process ive come accross as a c0ck



For the mums out there, after all that pain, worry, and anxiety... is it worth it having a child?

I DON'T see you as coming across as a c0ck. As i see it(from your avatar and no offense to you) that you are pretty young, and theres experiences in life your yet to encounter. Its perfectly acceptable to ask questions about a subject you thought that you were right about. If your thoughts still stand then thats fine, you've just gained more knowledge and fact from some that are happy to give you that from personal experience.

And yes, its worth having a child. I've said to a couple of folks(more male) its not until you have a child of your own in your arms do you actually know what life is all about, your whole world changes, most of the time for the better

Originally Posted by Magnum

On the plus side of making this thread it has opened my eyes, but in the process ive come accross as a c0ck



For the mums out there, after all that pain, worry, and anxiety... is it worth it having a child?

So the question is.....have you got someone in the family way?

Originally Posted by dizzyblonde

I DON'T see you as coming across as a c0ck. As i see it(from your avatar and no offense to you) that you are pretty young, and theres experiences in life your yet to encounter. Its perfectly acceptable to ask questions about a subject you thought that you were right about. If your thoughts still stand then thats fine, you've just gained more knoweldge and fact from some that are happy to give you that from personal experience.

And yes, its worth having a child. I've said to a couple of folks(more male) its not until you have a child of your own in your arms do you actually know what life is all about, your whole world changes, most of the time for the better

Thanks. Yeah i am young (youngest on the forum i think?) just turned 17 in january. I can honestly say that my opinions have changed and are a little more liberal towards women choosing abortions, but i stand firm ground on the ones using it for contraception, which im sure you can aggree with since its the worst way to treat abortions.

Originally Posted by cuffy

So the question is.....have you got someone in the family way?

What do you mean?

My class had this discussion in college in an all boys class some how =\ I agree under certain circumstances, for me no offence to any one infact i respect them but if me and my partner were to have a child with an illness/disability of some sort then id agree with an abortion as i feel that i wouldnt be able to look after them or that they would have much of life or i could give them much of a life and a lot of people i know feel the same way.

[dizzyblonde]

yep, I feel that sort of thing is perhaps plain irresponsible......but still not really for me to comment about, as I've never been faced with it. There is contraception available, even up to the morning after pill, so to get to the ultimate point of a termination, if you've wasted your chances in the first place, you 'may' be just pretty dim.

It really is a last resort. Again though still not a decision taken lightly

Originally Posted by Magnum

What do you mean?

Just seems a bizzare(sp) thread to start, so to put it in ****wit terms.....have you got somebody pregnant?