OMO: find me a girlfriend

[joshwalker094]

Oh mighty Org, I'm sick of being messed about, especially by ex's.
as I'm little bit fat, no one in college takes an interest as their all looking for mr fit and athletic. I've tried POF.com no luck with that haha and I'm rubbish at talking to girls and have low confidence and self-esteem.

Thanks lovesick
Josh

[dizzyblonde]

Stop looking!
People have a habit of finding each other when they don't purposely try finding a partner.

I know how you feel. I'm mother of three, not exactly young, not exactly fit but want to meet someone for a bit of fun. I'm not looking for serious commitment just someone to spend the little bit of free time I have with.
It's very difficult. a friend of mine keeps trying to get me on biker planet but im very reluctant!!!

[joshwalker094]

I'd be happy to commit, after having an ex round on Saturday night, she turned up out of the blue, abit drunk, and sleeping with her on the sofa, nothing sexually happened just snogging and cuddling, it made me realise how much I miss and love her, even though she dumped me two years ago, but I've always still had feelings for her, she led me on so much and i know she doesn't feel much towards me, I suppose she was just using me, like she did two years ago but i guess I'm just a really sensitive guy. What's biker planet?

Do you have any social hobbies that will allow you to mix with new people? If you're talking to girls and immediately grading their girlfriend potential then you will find yourself in a muddle. Learn to relax and enjoy being single, as Lou says one will sound you out when you're least expecting it. Easy for folk with other halves to say I know but it will happen.

Do you still have your hawk? Why not take it with you to town like Jayneflakes does with her barn owl, fantastic talking point, actually genuinely interested girls will come up to you and want to know more...

Focus on your own life, instead of wasting time on women, spend that time bettering yourself as an individual.
I wish the time I spent with women was spent doing something productive rather than snogging some dumb bitch on a sofa.

HTH

Through thorough research it has also been discovered that living a life with prostitutes and enjoying yourself (doing things you've always wanted to do) is cheaper than a wife and kids. Safe yourself the hassle

[joshwalker094]

Originally Posted by Purity14

Focus on your own life, instead of wasting time on women, spend that time bettering yourself as an individual.
I wish the time I spent with women was spent doing something productive rather than snogging some dumb bitch on a sofa.

HTH

I'm starting to wish I didn't let her in now, but being a nice guy that I am and since she said she was locked out. I felt I had to.
Cheers for replies people,
I don't have my hawk no more :/ When I'm talking to girls I don't see them as girlfriend material, I see them as a friend. I don't really have many social hobbies, apart from the motorbikes, I don't drink so going pub and socialising there is boring.

Originally Posted by joshwalker094

I'm starting to wish I didn't let her in now, but being a nice guy that I am and since she said she was locked out. I felt I had to.
Cheers for replies people,
I don't have my hawk no more :/ When I'm talking to girls I don't see them as girlfriend material, I see them as a friend. I don't really have many social hobbies, apart from the motorbikes, I don't drink so going pub and socialising there is boring.

So how many bike meets do you go to? Do you not find non-biking girls interested in your bike? Do you just ride it for pleasure or transport?

And find another hobby, no point moping about, that's not going to get you anywhere. If you're concerned about your weight then maybe a physical hobby? Running or gymming can be a great way to meet people. You have cats, should have got a dog haha. Dog walking another great way to interact with other life beings

[JamesMio]

I'm little bit fat...

That bothered you enough to mention it - you don't drink, so you're already at a huuuuge advantage. Join a gym / buy a push bike and get yourself fit.

A) You'll feel MUCH better for it.
B) You'll look MUCH better for it.

Oh, and get a job behind a reasonably busy bar - sure-fire way to get used to / comfortable with talking to loads of girls.