The age difference thread.

I couldn't go out with a 14 y/o..

honestly, how mature can she be?
Physically shes a child and mentally..

I my age gap for girls is plus/minus 1 year on my age.
Unless a older woman comes along...
My sisters friends are 15/16, and I am nearly 18.
I couldn't hack going out with one, theyre just not gf material.
Theyre not children physically, but still morally wrong.
I have a severe pasion of hate for the guys my age and older, who take younger girls(>16) out on their cars and emm.. etc

Honestly, how the hell does a 14 y/o meet a 18 y/o?

Only been with a underager when I was underage, we were the same age.
Is that frowned upon?

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Originally Posted by leedsmatt7

Sorry Greek I come from Batley, if a bird looks less than 20 its advised you ask their age. They'll prob be 12. As you are by breadmans corrections lol

I'm in Batley too. If a bird looks at me, I try to look in the other direction...

Batley/Dewsbury is (are?) the teenage pregnancy capital of the UK. This was the case before I moved here... honest guv...

[SoulKiss]

Originally Posted by Sally

Only been with a underager when I was underage, we were the same age.
Is that frowned upon?

Thats just kids messing around (although they should still know better you naughty boy )

Its silly, we are saying that the following is ok

Person 1: 15 years, 0 months, 1 day
Person 2: 15 years, 11 months, 31 days

yet for the same people, 2 days later it is not.

Shows how silly the rules/law is at times, but they are STILL the rules/laws.

[dizzyblonde]

As a parent, if my son brought a 14 yr old home at 18...I'd give him a slap round the earhole, even if he was taller than me
IF I had a daughter, she'd be under lock and key if she was 14 and looking to go out with 18 yr olds.

However as an adult type, I think its rather cool for me to have a toyboy

Paws, I don't really have taken offense to you..more rather to just some of the people. I just think that it's not really anyones buisness...

But uhhm, who has the right to talk about whether YOU think it's "ok"...

We're very happy together, no-one here knows the circumstances.. what we do is frankly none of anyone's business but our own. She's very mature about the whole "sexual" thing and neither of us even want to have children, so there's not even a worry about this..we don't even do that, I'm still happily a virgin, I'm in no rush.. And you think she's immature? Neither of us want to do things like that, because as a couple we're not ready.. we've been together nearly a year now (our anniversary is in August) and I don't ever plan to have to live a day without her..

We're both happy together and and that's what matters, no?

Call it illegal, but I'll tell you politely to **** off and go annoy someone else..

She looks and acts like she's my age, she's very loving and is always there for me when I need her.. she isn't a "hoe" and she doesn't "send naughty pics" or anything of that sort....

You don't know about her, you have NO IDEA what she's been through in the past, you couldn't even begin to imagine...it's not even like we MEANT to fall in love, it just happened over the course of a few months, and here we are, completely in love with each other nearly a year down the line......

Why does EVERYONE automatically assume we're having sexual relations? Or sending silly photographs of each other?... Or doing "silly" things... I mean, is it just because of our ages? Do you assume all teenage girls are hookers and all guys my age are just out for sex? Perhaps we're not all like you may used to have been..

She wouldn't tell me her age, at first.. I'd been in a relationship with her for about 6 months before she told me, because, just like you lot, she was very worried about it.. she basically broke down infront of me just because even she thought I was going to leave her.. and of course I didn't, because age is just a number.


If me dating a 14y/o (She's 15 in November, but yeah), is so wrong, just because some government law prohibits sexual intercourse (doesn't say you can't kiss or caress..) when one member is under 16, it's just as bad to be a 18 year old dating a 36 year old? That's even worse, in my opinion..

But as such, who gives a crap about my opinion, because it may just so happen that 18 and that 36 year old are as happy as you can possibly imagine together, can't you just take your noses and get out of peoples business without making sweeping statements, crude generalisations and generally talking a load of ******** about things you simply cannot understand.

Frankly, this thread (more rather some of the comments) has sickened me ,and frankly, upset me quite a bit.. I thought this was a nicer place than this..

jamie your the one who asked-

I'm 18, she's 14? Is that so bad?

don't ask a question mate if your gonna be offended/upset at the reply just because you don't like what you hear.

When I asked the question, did I mean for basically half the forum to pick it apart in a 14 page thread that popped up in half a day....making assumptions and generally getting involved in something that doesn't matter to them, neither would they understand.

I honestly don't care what anyone thinks, because at the end of the day, we're both very very very happy together, we both need eachother, and if anyone has any problems with that, then IDC, frankly.

I'm not going to try and make it "sound" ok, I know it sounds "wrong", but it's not "wrong", so why should anyone care?

I'm done posting in this thread, not going to argue with people about something they have no business in..

I think you were just prodding us for a reaction.
You're post had nothing to do with the topic in question, and even mentioned she was 14 you'reself, and posed the org with a question, where we have responded with our opinions and life experiences.
No one asked, if you can't handle peoples opinions, don't ask for the question.

Half of us, myself included didn't even know who we were discussing.
It was more a discussion of the idea of a 14 y/o and a 18 y/o which was started here, not a discussion if we viewed you and you're 14 y/o gf to be bad.

Originally Posted by Jamiebridges123

Paws, I don't really have taken offense to you..more rather to just some of the people. I just think that it's not really anyones buisness...

But uhhm, who has the right to talk about whether YOU think it's "ok"...

We're very happy together, no-one here knows the circumstances.. what we do is frankly none of anyone's business but our own. She's very mature about the whole "sexual" thing and neither of us even want to have children, so there's not even a worry about this..we don't even do that, I'm still happily a virgin, I'm in no rush.. And you think she's immature? Neither of us want to do things like that, because as a couple we're not ready.. we've been together nearly a year now (our anniversary is in August) and I don't ever plan to have to live a day without her..

We're both happy together and and that's what matters, no?

Call it illegal, but I'll tell you politely to **** off and go annoy someone else..

She looks and acts like she's my age, she's very loving and is always there for me when I need her.. she isn't a "hoe" and she doesn't "send naughty pics" or anything of that sort....

You don't know about her, you have NO IDEA what she's been through in the past, you couldn't even begin to imagine...it's not even like we MEANT to fall in love, it just happened over the course of a few months, and here we are, completely in love with each other nearly a year down the line......

Why does EVERYONE automatically assume we're having sexual relations? Or sending silly photographs of each other?... Or doing "silly" things... I mean, is it just because of our ages? Do you assume all teenage girls are hookers and all guys my age are just out for sex? Perhaps we're not all like you may used to have been..

She wouldn't tell me her age, at first.. I'd been in a relationship with her for about 6 months before she told me, because, just like you lot, she was very worried about it.. she basically broke down infront of me just because even she thought I was going to leave her.. and of course I didn't, because age is just a number.


If me dating a 14y/o (She's 15 in November, but yeah), is so wrong, just because some government law prohibits sexual intercourse (doesn't say you can't kiss or caress..) when one member is under 16, it's just as bad to be a 18 year old dating a 36 year old? That's even worse, in my opinion..

But as such, who gives a crap about my opinion, because it may just so happen that 18 and that 36 year old are as happy as you can possibly imagine together, can't you just take your noses and get out of peoples business without making sweeping statements, crude generalisations and generally talking a load of ******** about things you simply cannot understand.

Frankly, this thread (more rather some of the comments) has sickened me ,and frankly, upset me quite a bit.. I thought this was a nicer place than this..

I think that as long as your both happy and know what your doing then really, why is it any one elses business? Do what makes you happy mate and just ignore any one that thinks its 'wrong'

the joys of a public forum -if you don't want people commenting why post it then-its your business but when you post it on the internet for all and sundry to read hell mend you for what comes your way-not being nasty jamie but you can maybe learn from this.