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Originally Posted by Richie

u-rated Lozzo :0)
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McFly have Stargirl played on the radio often enough and that has the famous "When I fell in love with Uranus" line in it.

I'm sorry, but the juvenile in me can't help but near pi55 myself whenever I hear that song.

[TamSV]

From what you say, my advice would be get rid and do it now. The messing about's bad enough but then she's telling you about it?? Sounds like she wants the drama. I don't see why these lads are threatening you unless she's been telling them stories.

Does she have difficulty maintaining friendships with other women by any chance? That's the number one marker for a bunny boiler IME.

I wouldn't be too worried about the threats. The really serious guys just get on with it. Baseball bat just in case though.

Well if you are finishing with her....

Got any pictures you would like to share with ze org?

Originally Posted by Sally

Well if you are finishing with her....

Got any pictures you would like to share with ze org?

I have never been so proud of you Sally

You're 20 years old, you were very unlikely to have found your partner for life anyway, and you have loads of women left to shag, and loads of time to find somebody so much better.

I don't disagree with Bibio and Specialone, because I know what they meant, once you meet the right girl, relationships are not complicated romantically. And they are not even complicated emotionally or practically when times are good.

But, coming from parents who divorced after 22 years, and having been through a major split myself, I'm not naive enough to say that once you find the right girl, it can never go wrong, circumstances change and life changes. Every relationship needs commitment and hard work, and recognising that no status quo ever lasts forever, and expecting life to change and throw you a few curve balls, actually helps you to cope and work through that change as a couple, and come out the other side together, when it does inevitably happen.

Where Bibio and Specialone's statement is bang on is romantic complications, involving other people. When you've found the right person, you just don't consider having a relationship with another person. That only happens when either the commitment and hard work has failed and the relationship has reached a natural end anyway, or when you didn't have the right person in the first place. The exception to that though, where unfaithfulness can happen, even though you are with the right person, is when not enough commitment and hard work was put in by one party, or the other, or both the first time around. Where unfaithfulness happens in those circumstances, both parties can realise that, correct it, and start afresh going on to have a successful relationship.

You'll never find perfection, there's no such thing as being 100% right for each other, and every relationship needs compromise on both sides, but whilst I agree with Soulkiss that we are not really in a position to comment, as we don't know you, her, or all the facts, I'm going to take a wild guess and say you don't need this **** now, and she's not the right girl.

First of all nice to see so much good advice from the people of svland.

Trust is the most important thing, when it is gone you aren't getting it back.

You should have say thanks but no thanks when it first happened, now you hurt and need to make yourself feel better. So organise a nice romantic meal then tell her that the only way to show true love is with with back door action (never tried it, not really interested but would be a good conversation starter) then dump her.

If you still haven't got back you spring in her step then tell her you have a crush on her mum and she loves you too. In for a penny in for a pound.

On a serious note take the short term pain get it over with anything else is only going to keep hurting you.

In the wise words of a mate of mine "think about it what would you rather say I f***** your mum, or I f***** your mum in her a**"

Have I over stepped the mark again?

Not read all the replies but you should walk mate. Don't kid yourself that she loves you and is a nice person, she isn't.

I had a girlfriend like this once and she was sleeping with everyone behind my back, but in my eyes she was great, love struck I guess....

Just get rid and move on, there is so much better out there!

[Kenzie]

The wife says you must be the confused one when you have to ask a public forum if you should get rid of a lying cheating silly girl. I think the answer is pretty obvious. If I did this to my wife my bike and balls would have been wrecked by now and out on my ear if I was left alive!
then

Get rid and enjoy getting

[Jayneflakes]

Originally Posted by Lozzo

the juvenile in me

I am not sure that is legal!

I know, I am such a child! Loves you Lozzo...

*hides*

I knew a guy once who had a girlfriend who cheated on him with his best friend. He was outraged, dumped her and had the dog put down!

Being on your own is great, it gives you time to really find out who you are, to find inner peace and to sleep with as many tarts as you can find. I miss being young...

God, you lot have got me thinking and now im wondering if i shouldnt be single (AGAIN!!).

Thanks for that!!!