Why does life suck?!

thank you everybody for your hugs and well wishes

my dad has called me back and my sister has also spoken to me. Me and my dad seem to be the most worried where as my sister and mum are just like O well you know?!

Lone wolf- i hope your mum gets better soon and her op goes well!!

[Shellywoozle]

Awww Lily & Lone wolf - I am sorry to hear this, the biggest things for your Mums is they have you and support to help them through this poo time. Without family and friends we have noone.

And you have us to support you so between us all you will get through this hun.

Big hugs and lots of loving vibes

Shell and Samson xxxx

oh guys that sucks big time

+ 1 for what Shelly said

In the last few months, I've gone to the hospital with my sister as she was diagnosed with epilepsy, attended my grandfather's funeral services, spent 36 hours at the hospital again for my wife's "cerebral-vascular stent" operation, lost feeling in my throttle-hand due to a pinched nerve, and just last Sunday, accidentally inhaled some of my grandmother as I was scattering her ashes in front of 6 of her 7 children.

But... As much as life can suck at times, it's still much better than the alternative, in my opinion!

Life throws some very <insert extreme adjective here> situations at you... Just be thankful that the "corn" was at least properly diagnosed. All the best thoughts and wishes out to you and your mom! I hope everything turns out for the best!

[timwilky]

Going through the "in the family" bit at present myself. My wife has had to have a mastectomy, chemo, radio therapy.

However, they gave her a bone scan. noticed something in her right femur. MRI scan. definitely something there. So she is seeing a orthopaedic surgeon in 2 weeks time.

Life is bitch at times

hey lily i am always here in the last four years i have had it tough also firstly my bro died and then my mum fell down some stairs at work and hurt her back really bad she had an operation on her spine then end of last year she had an operation on her arm to stop calcium leaking into her arm now she has found that she has atharitis pretty much everywhere and then to top it all of my Dad went to the hospital had some tests done and they found a lump or something in his Colon ok they took it out had he of waited anylongerr the doctor said it would of turned into cancer but he has check ups after that he broke his leg and was in hospital and i seriously thought my parents were dying it was hard but i understand your angxity (spealt wrong) love to you and your family and drew as well allways here

Lily, lone wolf and Tim, wish there was something I could say that would make the slightest difference, unfortunately I cant, been through tough times myself and know how important it is to have mates around you, all the best to all concerned.

Sorry Lily about things right now. Life can be a bi-atch sometimes. Keep your chin up kid.

Damn, thats really harsh, cancer is an awefull thing.

Is there any results on how far "progressed" the cancer is? Modern medicine has some clever tricks on how to deal with cancerous cells, so have some faith in it. Chin up lily, figneres crossed for your mum

Matt