Independant Women

Originally Posted by Shellywoozle

Ahhh I been showing my white bits .... you get free alcohol this way

ah, so thats where I'm going wrong - I pay for my alcohol then several hours later I'm showing my white bits!!

Originally Posted by Shellywoozle

I been pondering on life over past few days, mine in particular. Where am I going blah blah blah. I could pretty much answer all my questions and lay down most my thoughts but one thing I always wondered .......

Question for the guys ..... do you like independant ladies or do you feel intimidate by us ???

I have a pretty good job which can turn people away in their droves by itself, have my own house, car, bike and dog ..... I like being independant (job etc) but after my pondering I think this has always been my downfall.

a couple of points here i feel. firstly do i feel intimidated by a lady who stands on her own two feet, certainly not fair play to you.
and secondly, more on a personal note, i have my own house, car, bike, grave in the garden where the cats buried, wife and two children. do i feel independent, NO. then why not.( more surpressed)
so is your independence more about my space and my achievements and my belongings. is it more selfish than indepedence. do'nt get me wrong shelly i'm not being judgemental just thought provoking.
god i hope i've not started a charged debate.

Originally Posted by Shellywoozle

Question for the guys ..... do you like independant ladies or do you feel intimidate by us ???

I think your over thinking this... Let me put it like this...

I like cake... So... Can you cook cake... Or supply me with cake?

Thats it, I'm a bloke, and simple at it.

[Shellywoozle]

Originally Posted by Gene genie

a couple of points here i feel. firstly do i feel intimidated by a lady who stands on her own two feet, certainly not fair play to you.
and secondly, more on a personal note, i have my own house, car, bike, grave in the garden where the cats buried, wife and two children. do i feel independent, NO. then why not.( more surpressed)
so is your independence more about my space and my achievements and my belongings. is it more selfish than indepedence. do'nt get me wrong shelly i'm not being judgemental just thought provoking.
god i hope i've not started a charged debate.

Don't get my mind working any more LOL

And Grinch that's one thing I don't do, cook ... can't cook won't cook LOL (OK so not the indepedant)

[dizzyblonde]

Originally Posted by Grinch

I think your over thinking this... Let me put it like this...

I like cake... So... Can you cook cake... Or supply me with cake?

Thats it, I'm a bloke, and simple at it.

mmmm I like cake, i BUY nice cakes,but can't make them, my bloke don't like cakes which means theres always more for me...mwahahahaha

i think Grinch has a point, blokes like the simple things, girls make things too complicated by overly thinking about stuff and reading further into stuff than necessary....thankyou Mr Grinch you have just solved the argument in my house earlier today

And Grinch that's one thing I don't do, cook ... can't cook won't cook LOL (OK so not the indepedant)

here-in lies the problem!

Originally Posted by Shellywoozle

I don't do, cook ... can't cook won't cook LOL

theres your problem, the way to most mens heart is through his belly.

cook me up a scrummy meal and I all yours

Originally Posted by Shellywoozle

Don't get my mind working any more LOL

And Grinch that's one thing I don't do, cook ... can't cook won't cook LOL (OK so not the indepedant)

oh the relief. so glad you took it in the right frame of mind, i was a bit concerned myself after i posted it and read it back. you've got my head at it now, looking back on my life and what is/not on the horizon. depression setting in now. whos got sigmond freuds number?

[Shellywoozle]

Originally Posted by Gene genie

oh the relief. so glad you took it in the right frame of mind, i was a bit concerned myself after i posted it and read it back. you've got my head at it now, looking back on my life and what is/not on the horizon. depression setting in now. whos got sigmond freuds number?

Don't you start thinking LOL. I have now learnt not to think too deeply into stuff, I am going to take a GIANT chill pill and whatever will be will be .

And any little holes in my life that need filling will be filled with summat !!Ahhhh that sounds rude but it's not !!!!! hehehehe

Right off to take Samson to his Nans for his week's holiday then I am off to bed, to turn my little brain off and to relax for a week in the sun.

Originally Posted by Gene genie

so is your independence more about my space and my achievements and my belongings. is it more selfish than indepedence. do'nt get me wrong shelly i'm not being judgemental just thought provoking.
god i hope i've not started a charged debate.

Tis a good point and i`m not sure bout the majority of women but if Shell is anything like me, ok she`s younger but I`m sure we`re both singing from the same hymn sheet.

I don`t feel that the independence is the selfish "this is mine, this is what i`ve achieved, this is my space" it`s more a question of finding someone who you want to share all that you`ve achieved with. Someone who isn`t in anyway going to want to try and supress you or make you feel guilty for all that you`ve achieved and are continuing to achieve. I`m sure that like me she just wanted someone who would support, encourage and respect her, not try to dominate and control her or mess up her head with pointless mind games.

Also she wants someone who can cook......... not a lot to ask for is it? lol