Oh. My. God. Help !

Originally Posted by Ping

Blokes just keep coming up with reasons for me to not want to have anything to do with them.

Not all guys treat women like game pieces. The irony is that if guys who play games never got laid, they would never have kids to whom they could pass on those behaviours/genes. If women around the world boycotted "playa's" they would die out in a couple of generations.

I'm not blaming the ladies, I'm just saying it would be cool if the nice guys came first for a change.

Originally Posted by Terence

I'm just saying it would be cool if the nice guys came first for a change.

Leave it!

Originally Posted by Terence

I'm just saying it would be cool if us nice guys came first for a change.

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Originally Posted by Terence

Not all guys treat women like game pieces. The irony is that if guys who play games never got laid, they would never have kids to whom they could pass on those behaviours/genes. If women around the world boycotted "playa's" they would die out in a couple of generations.

I'm not blaming the ladies, I'm just saying it would be cool if the nice guys came first for a change.

This lady never goes anywhere near the 'playas' if they're obviously that. I never meant to say ALL men were like that. My point is that the RISK of being the unwitting victim of one of these types is unacceptable and the more antics I hear of the riskier the whole thing seems to be.

The way I see it is that I wasn't being a 'playa' back when I was out clubbing with mates, I never went out with the sole intention of taking someone home. I just went out with mates (sometimes that'd include female ones, but the games played were different then) and if anything happened, well, who was I to complain.

If that made me a 'Playa' back then, then I suppose I was. Not the way I see it though. More often than not I've been so blind drunk that I don't know how I got home, and I'd of been in no fit state to do anything with anyone other than throw up all over them.

Some of the group I hung around with back then, were definately 'playas' though, but that wasn't me.

I can be a nice guy too, but these days, I'm just me. I've got a family, so why worry what other people think (other than my family that is).

Originally Posted by Baph

The way I see it is that I wasn't being a 'playa' back when I was out clubbing with mates, I never went out with the sole intention of taking someone home. I just went out with mates (sometimes that'd include female ones, but the games played were different then) and if anything happened, well, who was I to complain.

If that made me a 'Playa' back then, then I suppose I was. Not the way I see it though. More often than not I've been so blind drunk that I don't know how I got home, and I'd of been in no fit state to do anything with anyone other than throw up all over them.

Some of the group I hung around with back then, were definately 'playas' though, but that wasn't me.

I can be a nice guy too, but these days, I'm just me. I've got a family, so why worry what other people think (other than my family that is).

Baph is a 'Playa', Baph is a 'Playa'.

Originally Posted by Steve H

Baph is a 'Playa', Baph is a 'Playa'.

Shhhhh man, it's a secret!

Originally Posted by Filipe M.

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Well I'm spoken for... but it's still ladies first

Sorry Baph, I can see how it looks like I was having a go... that wasn't my intention.

Originally Posted by Terence

Leave it!

No, everybody knows nice guys come last!