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Im Indoors is frightened of just that, feeling none independant, because he's only ever been single with his own agenda going, embarking on the whole living together I think frightens him to death. Even though hes been with me in his odd way for 4 yrs[/quote]don't get me wrong dizzy, i wouldn't change anything very content, i love my wife and both children. tell him to get off his a*** and pop the question to you before somebody else does. tell him theres no I in team, didnt work for me, it was the shotgun that worked for me.
i had 22 blissfuly happy years, and then i got married. ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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oooo if only he was lurking on here...lol. Yep have thought of doin a Sir Alan on him a few times, but for a change I'm just too soft fer me own good. But I have to let him finish his final year so I can give him chance to do something before its too late.......I can't wait forever can I?
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actually it doesn't matter how long you wait just as long its the right guy. remember the funs in the chase. let him do some running. god if he knew who i was he 'd be knocking on my door with a bat. ![]() |
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i've just noticed you live in halifax dizzy, i'm a little concerned now. is he a big guy and is he the type that'll take an older guy outside?
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ppoooor genie, nope he won't take you outside...unless you smoke cause everyone has to do that outside. Hes a nice guy, very funny, eats, breaths and lives bikes oh all in a league of gentleman type way
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Independance is not a bad quality!
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I'm in the office, so haven't read the whole thread yet (I get funny looks if I stare at the screen now moving).
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My take on it, is that independance means literally not relying on anyone. That doesn't mean you can't appreciate someone else (friendship wise, or relationship wise). In the past I've been out with a couple of girls that were very very dependant. The first one of those had issues with self harming/suicide. I seriously struggled to find a way out of the relationship for 6 months where it wouldn't end in her topping herself. I can tell you that's no fun at all. Give me an independant woman over what I've had in the past any day!! Also, Shell, don't feel too bad about all the soul searching and trying to find yourself. I've been through it not that long ago. As someone else said, relationships can leave people (of either gender) feeling smothered. I certainly have in the past, and the BP meets last year were a good way for me to escape that, as well as a few other things (basically taking time for me & doing things I wanted to do). Quote:
![]() That's the best way to be honest, just chill & be yourself. The right person will fall into your lap if you do, but more than that, you'll slowly find you're fending the opposite s3x off with a stick as you're more relaxed, therefore more attractive. Stress isn't that appealing. |
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