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Old 24-04-08, 10:14 PM   #41
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Im Indoors is frightened of just that, feeling none independant, because he's only ever been single with his own agenda going, embarking on the whole living together I think frightens him to death. Even though hes been with me in his odd way for 4 yrs[/quote]don't get me wrong dizzy, i wouldn't change anything very content, i love my wife and both children. tell him to get off his a*** and pop the question to you before somebody else does. tell him theres no I in team, didnt work for me, it was the shotgun that worked for me.
i had 22 blissfuly happy years, and then i got married.
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Old 24-04-08, 10:20 PM   #42
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don't get me wrong dizzy, i wouldn't change anything very content, i love my wife and both children. tell him to get off his a*** and pop the question to you before somebody else does. tell him theres no I in team, didnt work for me, it was the shotgun that worked for me.
i had 22 blissfuly happy years, and then i got married.

oooo if only he was lurking on here...lol.
Yep have thought of doin a Sir Alan on him a few times, but for a change I'm just too soft fer me own good. But I have to let him finish his final year so I can give him chance to do something before its too late.......I can't wait forever can I?
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Old 24-04-08, 10:20 PM   #43
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if her indoors ever found out about my 'alledged ' bank account of course. i'll send you the piccys once i've regained consciousness in a+e.
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Old 24-04-08, 10:25 PM   #44
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oooo if only he was lurking on here...lol.
Yep have thought of doin a Sir Alan on him a few times, but for a change I'm just too soft fer me own good. But I have to let him finish his final year so I can give him chance to do something before its too late.......I can't wait forever can I?
well to quote my old man ''none of us are getting any younger''
actually it doesn't matter how long you wait just as long its the right guy.
remember the funs in the chase. let him do some running. god if he knew who i was he 'd be knocking on my door with a bat.
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Old 24-04-08, 10:30 PM   #45
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well to quote my old man ''none of us are getting any younger''
actually it doesn't matter how long you wait just as long its the right guy.
remember the funs in the chase. let him do some running. god if he knew who i was he 'd be knocking on my door with a bat.
If he did any running, the only thing he'd use a bat for would be to lean on when his hip gave out..lol....hes one of the nice guys in a really odd way. He might try burning your eyebrows with some zorst flames but thats about it
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Old 24-04-08, 10:33 PM   #46
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i've just noticed you live in halifax dizzy, i'm a little concerned now. is he a big guy and is he the type that'll take an older guy outside?
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ppoooor genie, nope he won't take you outside...unless you smoke cause everyone has to do that outside. Hes a nice guy, very funny, eats, breaths and lives bikes oh all in a league of gentleman type way
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Old 24-04-08, 11:02 PM   #48
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Independance is not a bad quality!
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Old 25-04-08, 12:56 AM   #49
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Any woman who has do define herself as independent I'd keep away from It's such an American thing to analyse your life and categorise yourself in to said groups. Personally, I like a girl who just gets on with it and doesn't give it a moments thought Having your own house, car, career etc can only be a bonus.
don't characterize all Americans that way.

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Old 25-04-08, 06:41 AM   #50
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I'm in the office, so haven't read the whole thread yet (I get funny looks if I stare at the screen now moving).

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It's such an American thing to analyse your life and categorise yourself in to said groups.
It's not an American thing to analyse, it's a female thing. As others have mentionned in this thread.

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I`d say tho don`t look to a man to bring you that happiness and contentment, find it in yourself first and just let him be the icing on the cake.
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My take on it, is that independance means literally not relying on anyone. That doesn't mean you can't appreciate someone else (friendship wise, or relationship wise).

In the past I've been out with a couple of girls that were very very dependant. The first one of those had issues with self harming/suicide. I seriously struggled to find a way out of the relationship for 6 months where it wouldn't end in her topping herself. I can tell you that's no fun at all.

Give me an independant woman over what I've had in the past any day!!

Also, Shell, don't feel too bad about all the soul searching and trying to find yourself. I've been through it not that long ago. As someone else said, relationships can leave people (of either gender) feeling smothered. I certainly have in the past, and the BP meets last year were a good way for me to escape that, as well as a few other things (basically taking time for me & doing things I wanted to do).


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I am going to take a GIANT chill pill and whatever will be will be .
How's this to get you started?


That's the best way to be honest, just chill & be yourself. The right person will fall into your lap if you do, but more than that, you'll slowly find you're fending the opposite s3x off with a stick as you're more relaxed, therefore more attractive. Stress isn't that appealing.
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