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If the operation was traumatic for her, this maybe causing her to be suffering some kind of depression.

Perhaps if you make time for her, she may feel she is able to share her feelings with you without the risk of being ignored for the forum or anything bike related. If she feels that the bike is more important than she is, she is bound to go on the defensive to avoid feelings of neglect.

Woman are fickle, even at the best of times. Talking is a good option, but perhaps the silence says more?

[SoulKiss]

Originally Posted by GavinD

My girlfriend is AWESOME

Fact.

+1, your girlfriend IS AWESOME

Especially that thing she does with her tongue......



hehe

Originally Posted by -Ralph-

If you are having 50% happy times, 50% bad times, and you used to have 100% happy times, it's probably not time to leave, just time to put in some effort.

we used to have 90% bad times, then i encouraged her to do a little mor ein the bed and stop being lazy then i was 100% happy wich then made her atleast 90% happy, now shes had an opperation shes 60% happy. and im **** at moths. how much effort equates to 40% ?
and then how to we square route it?

full time work kills the brain!

shelly what does 18 + 18 make? and not all young men hunt cougers nowerdays

Originally Posted by Kate Moss

If the operation was traumatic for her, this maybe causing her to be suffering some kind of depression.

Perhaps if you make time for her, she may feel she is able to share her feelings with you without the risk of being ignored for the forum or anything bike related. If she feels that the bike is more important than she is, she is bound to go on the defensive to avoid feelings of neglect.

Woman are fickle, even at the best of times. Talking is a good option, but perhaps the silence says more?

i want to see her everyday but she says i cant or she doesnt want me to see her, that hurts the most. and her mums ****ed at me for not seeing her sunday but i asked my gf to explain to her mother that she was being a cow to me and wouldnt let me come to see her.

i rarely get as much bike time in as i used to when i wasnt with her. and i do love my bike but i put it away and see her 20 times more than i go out on my bike. and my bike costs me more than she does. ( finance is the enemy)

So do you currently live with your girlfriend?

Originally Posted by Moojuicepez

we used to have 90% bad times, then i encouraged her to do a little mor ein the bed and stop being lazy then i was 100% happy wich then made her atleast 90% happy, now shes had an opperation shes 60% happy. and im **** at moths. how much effort equates to 40% ?
and then how to we square route it?

Square roots? Maybe I should have just said one day good followed by one day bad and left percentages out of it. Just spent a load of time typing something to try and help you out though, so lets not take the p*ss too much eh?

Originally Posted by Moojuicepez

i want to see her everyday but she says i cant or she doesnt want me to see her, that hurts the most. and her mums ****ed at me for not seeing her sunday but i asked my gf to explain to her mother that she was being a cow to me and wouldnt let me come to see her.

i rarely get as much bike time in as i used to when i wasnt with her. and i do love my bike but i put it away and see her 20 times more than i go out on my bike. and my bike costs me more than she does. ( finance is the enemy)

So your not living with her and it ain't that serious anyway? Just dump her then.

nope she lives on the opposite side of cov to me. shes younger than me you see

If she doesn't want to see you, then give her her space. If she wants to be with you, she'l come to you when she is ready.
But i think the big question here is - do you want to be with her?
Are you waiting for her to finish it with you so you don't have to do the deed?

You're 18, how old is she?

Much younger? That could be why, too immature?

i took in the top part ralph, i just wanted to make light of the situation with a little math i failed math gcse twice!

it is serious. i feel anyway. love her to bits, shes just an odd one. Special, shall we say

but i cant see myself with anyone else really. our familys are now close and we all get on and its like were a whole family already. when shes happy its amazing. when shes unhappy. lifes like hell .


today shes getting her stitches out so shes really happy today , and with that.. i am too. im going to see her later and ill be having a nice chat with her about whats been going on and how she feels and stuff like that.