relationships...how do you know it's over?

[Shellywoozle]

Well done chick, glad you made your decision and gone through with it.

Here is to a happy Summer

Well given this new data that basically she has found someone new/better and running off with them and that is the only reason old bloke is getting dumped - not simply finally plucked up the courage to end an unhappy relationship i.e. finally been very brave - I am glad you chicks can still be so supportive ..

Perhaps I am missing more information, but I see this as something completely different now ..

Anyway, at the end of the day Mon needed to break free and lets hope this new relationship works out for her!!

Just a little disappointed she is not being as brave as I first though, that’s all

Originally Posted by Blue_SV650S

Well given this new data that basically she has found someone new/better and running off with them and that is the only reason old bloke is getting dumped - not simply finally plucked up the courage to end an unhappy relationship i.e. finally been very brave - I am glad you chicks can still be so supportive ..

Perhaps I am missing more information, but I see this as something completely different now ..

Anyway, at the end of the day Mon needed to break free and lets hope this new relationship works out for her!!

Just a little disappointed she is not being as brave as I first though, that’s all

yep totally wrong. Missing info is the key here, but I will not divulge any more. I may write a book some day....and it will be a riveting read
Title... "looking for justice"

thank you all for your support!

[Messie]

Originally Posted by Blue_SV650S

Well given this new data that basically she has found someone new/better and running off with them and that is the only reason old bloke is getting dumped - not simply finally plucked up the courage to end an unhappy relationship i.e. finally been very brave - I am glad you chicks can still be so supportive ..

Perhaps I am missing more information, but I see this as something completely different now ..

Anyway, at the end of the day Mon needed to break free and lets hope this new relationship works out for her!!

Just a little disappointed she is not being as brave as I first though, that’s all

No this really is not the case and you've got the wrong end of the stick. Mon has not done anything wrong but IMO (sorry babe) she's not putting her case very clearly. It all a chicken - egg/ cause - effect issue. Suffice to say that some people may look when they're unhappy, not the other way around. Sometimes it takes hindsight to see what's happening

Originally Posted by Messie

No this really is not the case and you've got the wrong end of the stick. Mon has not done anything wrong but IMO (sorry babe) she's not putting her case very clearly. It all a chicken - egg/ cause - effect issue. Suffice to say that some people may look when they're unhappy, not the other way around. Sometimes it takes hindsight to see what's happening

Thank you Sally

Originally Posted by Messie

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Originally Posted by laMon

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{double takes on avatars} .. Are you two actually the same person ???

[Messie]

Originally Posted by Blue_SV650S

{double takes on avatars} .. Are you two actually the same person just talking to yourself here??

Nope hehehe

Two different people honest!

The decision was made before the thread I suspect?

Infidelity from either party would be an instant relationship killer for me, which is why I will never do it.

But otherwise in the case of a broken relationship, so long as you tried hard to fix it and didn't just let it all slide away when things got difficult you can justify it to yourself and thats helps to avoid regret later on.

Good luck.