relationships...how do you know it's over?

it's in the title really...

Nothing in common (apart from a dog), and you realize that you never had,
conversations end up in arguments,
you rather be out then in,
you live in the same house...but that's where it ends
you rather go on hols with friends.

When would you call it a day and sail away?

When I ask questions like that.
Convenience is a killer.

Perhaps the answer lies in talking to your other half as opposed to speculating & theorizing on a forum.

Only 2 people have the answers & only one of them is on here.


Actually, I wouldn't take ny advice on affairs of the heart, tbh.

Originally Posted by Kinvig

Perhaps the answer lies in talking to your other half as opposed to speculating & theorizing on a forum.

Only 2 people have the answers & only one of them is on here.


Actually, I wouldn't take ny advice on affairs of the heart, tbh.

ha, but what if the walls are far better communicators?

Originally Posted by laMon

it's in the title really...

Nothing in common (apart from a dog), and you realize that you never had,
conversations end up in arguments,
you rather be out then in,
you live in the same house...but that's where it ends
you rather go on hols with friends.

When would you call it a day and sail away?

A long time ago by the sounds!!

When you feel like you can live without them IMO. I had some of the same feelings a while back, was paranoia on my part really, we did argue a lot and sometimes i didnt want to see her because of getting into an argument. I thought about my life without her - it was a black hole, it looked **** and not worth it.

So my answer is, when you feel you can sail away and not return.

[Shellywoozle]

As has been said forum advice is not the best in cases like this .... you need to work out what went wrong and why.

Sit down, maybe somewhere else not at home, and discuss the good points and the bad. I bet you both have bad and see if you can liven up the relationship. Work out what is missing and try and inject the fun back into it.

I have recently split and I tried so hard to get my ex to talk about what was wrong, he never would communicate with me and in the end he just left. I was left dazed wondering what on earth was going on and I still have not moved on. If he had communicated things could have been so much easier, even if we'd still split at least I could have said I tried.

The big question is "do you love HIM" and "if you saw HIM with another bird how would you feel"?

Talk before anything, with a house being involved it can get costly and messy and it may be unecessary.

Hope things turn out for you hun xxxx it's horrid when things don't run smoothly.

Its when you stop getting along that you should question the relationship. How long have things been bad? Have things been discussed?

You feel it in your gut when the relationship is over, much in the same way you feel it in your gut when you are starting a relationship

Matt

Originally Posted by Shellywoozle

The big question is "do you love her" and "if you saw her with another man how would you feel"?

Talk before anything, with a house being involved it can get costly and messy and it may be unecessary.

Hope things turn out for you hun xxxx it's horrid when things don't run smoothly.

{whisper} I think Mon is a burd!!

p.s. If they won't discuss what is wrong, its a fair bet there is or has been a 3rd party involved

[Shellywoozle]

Originally Posted by Blue_SV650S

{whisper} I think Mon is a burd!!

p.s. If they won't discuss what is wrong, its a fair bet there is or has been a 3rd party involved

SORRY !!!!! Change the HERS to HIM and ooooh don't think him with another man !!!! argghhhhhh = original post now edited LOL ..... sorry MON xxx